From the Heart of Jody Capehart

You make me smile.

I see the care you took.

That looked a lot like Jesus!

You’re becoming much wiser.

Thank you for caring.

How thoughtful of you!

You really thought that through.

How kind of you to share.

Your creativity is inspiring.

Your enthusiasm excites me.

You are wonderful!

I love being around you.

You handled that beautifully.

You think of great questions.

Awesome, possum!

Way to live God’s Word!

What a word whiz!

You’ve been practicing.

You make life fun.

I think you made the right choice.

Couldn’t ask for more than that!

Your sharing ways warms my heart.

I knew you could do it.

Look at you shine!

I can really count on you.

MLM is …

If yes develop a plan to actively, consistently and with persistence do all five (5) action items several times each week.

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Here is a list that will get you started thinking about what You Need to be
Successful in Your Business in 2011:
1. You MUST BELIEVE that YOU DESERVE SUCCESS.
2. You MUST BE CONFIDENT that FULFILLING YOUR PURPOSE in life
WILL CREATE SUCCESS.
3. You MUST HAVE A MASTERMIND of like-minded people, a TEAM of
SUCCESSFUL MENTORS.
4. You MUST USE the Product, RECOMMEND the Product and SPONSOR.
5. You MUST remain FOCUSED on the DAILY TASKS that build, even the
menial, repetitive, Slight Edge, tasks that are Easy to Do and Easy Not to Do!
6. You MUST be READY to RECEIVE SUCCESS.
7. You MUST have CLARITY – What DO YOU Want? What is YOUR WHY?

Do Not Sabotage Yourself by thinking that you do not deserve success!

Often times well meaning people in our lives tell us that good things will never happen for us. Maybe they don’t want to see us expect so much so that we will not be disappointed. However, if we don’t dream, it will never happen. If we expect poverty, that is what we will get. On the other side of the coin, if we expect prosperity, that is what we will get. “We have not because we ask not,” James says in the Bible, Or we “ask amiss,” seeking only our own pleasure not thinking of God’s plan or of others. We will be successful when we help enough others to be successful.

Most people have heard that ‘God Doesn’t Make Any Junk!’ God made us “in His Image” (Genesis), therefore we are deserving of An Abundant Life!

An Abundant Life does not mean that we will all be millionaires. Success is not being rich in an abundance of material things. In the Disney Movie, ‘The Happiest Millionaire’, the millionaire was a giving, caring man who was very happy with his life. He was not a ‘Scrooge’, hoarding his wealth, but shared his wealth of advice as well as his time and resources.

Happiness is Success. You are successful when you are happy!

Happiness comes from within.

Can you look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself that you love yourself?
If you can, that is wonderful. If not, repeat it often until you believe it!

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To your success,

Debbie Engler

I believe in everyone else, but when it comes to ME, I don’t have faith the size of a speck of dust.

I listened to a good friend and mentor of mine who said he would believe in me until I believed in myself and he had some great advice, “Keep the Positive Emotions in the forefront of your mind at all times and stop all negative emotions from entering.”

Positive Emotions                     Negative Emotions
1. Desire                                          1. Fear
2. Faith                                            2. Jealousy
3. Love                                            3. Hatred
4. Sex                                              4. Revenge
5. Enthusiasm                                 5. Greed
6. Romance                                     6. Superstition
7. hope                                           7. Anger
8. Prosperity                                   8. Lack

Find a ‘Perfect Day’ experience that you have had and go there in your mind to help you block out the negative influence around you that you can not walk away from.

He used the word picture of someone being sick, coughing or throwing up on you. You would not
allow them to continue but would put something between them and yourself.

You can put something between them and yourself by going to your ‘Perfect Day’ in your mind.
Then just smile and enjoy the memory without the ‘puke’ of negativity getting you down.

So, as we enter this uncharted territory of 2011, think about these words from another mentor of mine…

THIS IS YOUR LIFE.
Do what you LOVE and do it OFTEN.
If you don’t like something, CHANGE IT.
If you don’t like your job, QUIT.
If you don’t have enough time, QUIT WATCHING TV.
If you are looking for the love of your life, STOP.
They will be waiting for you when you START DOING THINGS YOU LOVE.
STOP OVER ANALYZING. LIFE IS SIMPLE.
All emotions are beautiful.
When you eat, APPRECIATE EVERY LAST BITE.
Open your MIND, ARMS, and HEART to New Things and People,
We are united in our DIFFERENCES.
Ask the NEXT PERSON you see what their PASSION is,
and SHARE your INSPIRING DREAM with them.
TRAVEL OFTEN; getting lost will help you FIND YOURSELF.
Some OPPORTUNITIES only come once, SEIZE THEM.
Life is about the PEOPLE you meet and the things you CREATE WITH THEM.
So go out and START CREATING.
LIVE YOUR DREAM AND WEAR YOUR PASSION.
LIFE IS SHORT.

Inspiration Zone by Art Jonak

Live in the PRESENT for that is all you have the ability to do anything about.

Debbie Engler

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Most people do best with 90 day runs or goals for a three month (quarter of the year) period. Set your goals for 90 days and the readjust and set them for the next 90 days until…. it never has to stop until you do. Each 90 day run will encourage the next 90 days and build on the last 90 days.

Remember, not to use excuses to slow you down. Life is going to happen in 2011, just like it did in 2010. This year has held it’s trials and blessings for many people including me. I often used life happenings as an excuse until someone asked me, “Is this your business or a hobby?”

Why is it that we treat a home based business like a hobby and not with the priority and commitment that a business should hold for us? (You have to answer that one for yourself.)

Does your business take precedence over the laundry, dishes, housecleaning, etc? I don’t mean that these things are not to be done when it is time to do them, just work them into your business schedule! not the other way around.

Here is a list that will get you started thinking about what You Need to be Successful in Your Business in 2011:

1. You MUST BELIEVE that YOU DESERVE SUCCESS.
2. You MUST BE CONFIDENT that FULFILLING YOUR PURPOSE in life WILL CREATE SUCCESS.
3. You MUST HAVE A MASTERMIND of like-minded people, a TEAM of SUCCESSFUL MENTORS.
4. You MUST USE the Product, RECOMMEND the Product and SPONSOR Partners.
5. You MUST remain FOCUSED on the DAILY TASKS that build, even the menial, repetitive, Slight Edge, tasks that are Easy to Do and Easy Not to Do!
6. You MUST be READY to RECEIVE SUCCESS.
7. You MUST have CLARITY – What DO YOU Want? What is YOUR WHY?
The list could go on and it does…

Be sure to spend TIME on YOURSELF – Develop your mind and purpose first, then you will BE ABLE to LEAD others become Successful, also.

I wish you all a Very Merry Christmas and The BEST EVER NEW YEAR!

Debbie Engler

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The word goes back to Homer’s Odyssey a
story which tells how before leaving on his long journey,
Odysseus asked a close friend to watch over and guide
his son. That friend’s name was Mentor.

Some observations from the book by Marc Freedman,
“The Kindness of Strangers”:

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Mentors

1. Listening:

It is the only way mentors can understand what people
are up against and where opportunities for developing
the relationship can be discovered.

2. Building a relationship:

In the hurry to make a difference, mentors can forget to
take time to build a relationship and establish a firm
connection. this means carefully cultivating trust..It
means being patient. Many people will test mentors
to see if they are for real.

3. Respecting boundaries:

When mentors ask people personal questions before
a solid relationship has been established, the most
common response is silence. People will clam up.
Mentors who do not respect their mentees’ needs
for privacy are often quick to alienate them.

4. Being sensitive to differences:

It is necessary to realize that mentors and those
they work with come from different worlds, a reality
even for mentors who have grown up disadvantaged.
This means being aware of the embarrassment a
person might feel about being poor.

5. Providing support and challenges:

Successful mentors are consistently there for people,
delivering a sustained message ‘You are important”
when problems arise, effective mentors resist telling
people what to do and instead work with them to
address the problems. These mentors are eventually
able to strike a balance between supporting and
challenging both nurturing people and pushing them
toward their goals.

6. Acknowledging reciprocity:

While mentors often have to provide the initiative
early in the relationship as trust is being established,
mentoring is a two-way street. Growth, benefits and
struggles are present on both sides, and mentors
who are able to convey they are there for mutual
exchange, not just solve problems stand the greatest
chance of making a solid connection.

7. Being realistic:

Few mentors turn lives around, but mentors who help
people move toward achievable goals can make a real
contribution. Often this means having thick skin,
tolerating unreturned phone calls, accepting the
cultural gaps that must be bridged. In the end, few
virtues in mentoring rival on growing commitment and
genuine caring.

Taken from an email from Ernie Hines to Michael Dlouhy

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To YOUR Success,
Debbie Engler

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“Sticks and Stones may break my bones, but Words will never hurt me!”

This is not true!

Believe in your dreams, Create your future
Debbie Engler

Ready, Fire, Aim = Learn to adjust from your mistakes!

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I decided to start this week’s article with a quote from Bob Griswold as it expresses how we are to focus on today, the present. We cannot change yesterday. Tomorrow is not here. The only actions or thoughts that we have any control over are right now.

How did you start your day? Did you wake up glad to see a new day? Did you have plans for the day that included your passion or purpose in life?

Are you thankful for everything in your life right now? Being grateful has a lot to do with your success. Putting a smile on your face and smiling at others will also increase your success.

This Thanksgiving, and throughout the rest of the year, plan to make 2011 the best year ever!

Live in the ‘NOW’

Be Grateful

Smile

Plan to be Successful

Have a safe and happy Thanksgiving,

Debbie Engler

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You already have the talent and ability to create great suc-

cess in your life. The Success Equation will show you how:

[(P+T) x A x A) +F = Your Success Equation

ASSOCIATION

Association refers to the people and organizations you surround yourself with. Think of the five people you spend the most time with.

Do they support you? Are they successful? Do you need to change your associations?

List the names of five successful people that you personally know.

Describe what makes these people winners in your opinion.

Make another list. What associations could help you apply your talent and your passion?

Think of groups of people, businesses, age groups, sports that could benefit or assist you in pursuing your passion and talent.

Now search the web for your passion and talent. What did your internet search turn up? If you are overwhelmed by the search results, start narrowing your focus until you find something that intrigues you. Any new ideas?

Look at the list of associations you listed and pick one. Make a call to see if you can “be of service” to that association. Ask, “How may I serve you?”

ACTION

Making a change requires taking action. Are you really committed to improving your life, or are you just attracted to the possibility?

Look in the mirror: . . . for things to change… you must change!!!

FAITH

This is often the toughest part of the equation to master. Having faith means believing in yourself and your idea despite the obstacles you may encounter.

Remember — Take a moment to remember the low points and the high points in your life.

Reflect — How did those times impact you? How did you respond?

Did you have support from your friends and family?

Recognize — Recognize that almost all successful people also have low points as well as the successes in their lives. They learn how to persevere and succeed through those low points. You Can Too!

Acknowledge– Acknowledge that you can persevere and can find the right associations!

Act as if! — Have the faith that your personal Success Equation will drive you to incredible success and start taking action every day toward that success.

Remember:

In order to plan a course for success, it helps to know where you are and how you got there. There is a saying, “Your life is the sum total of the decisions you have made.” Let’s review your past in order to create your future…

You will need to read the book, Three Feet From Gold, to get more details.
It is Truth Wrapped in a Story. I learned much from reading the book and am reading it again!

Don’t let your potential die. Find your passion in life and pursue it!

Debbie

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I asked God to bring people in my life that believed in Him, people that would aid me in finding what I was missing. See I was going to church and reading the Bible and was still depressed I could feel myself spiraling further and further. When I attended church I still felt very strong that I was missing something, what I had no clue.

So I prayed and prayed to find “it” to know soon as it was in front of me that what ever “it” is, is what “He” was telling me was missing. It was amazing for me the first time my Mother showed me a video about DNA and the “ether” I knew with out a doubt in my mind that what they were sharing was real. My mind took over and was like watching a movie reel comparing what I was learning to what I know about the bible. Then she brought me on the 30-Day Mental Cleanse call, which is The Key to success. When I heard Micheal Doulhy talk I got so excited, I said to my Mother “This is it this is what I have been asking God for!!!” I felt “IT” I knew that what he was sharing was the truth I could feel it deep where it counts.

This blog is a mile stone in my journey, with this I over came one of the”fear” road blocks on my path of success. Join me in my journey of self development, success in network marketing, and life!

Thank you to my brilliant mentors I love all of you!

The Mentoring Mom,
Crystal Parish