Making a sound decision and sticking to it, can be difficult. When you do and you stick to it like you have been crazy glued to it, you have a far greater chance of success then if you were wishy washy, constantly changing your mind.
CHAPTER 8 - DECISION
Michael, it is Wednesday, 10 September, Mental
Cleanse call day. This morning I see clarity and feel
the difference from my usual diffused cluttered mind.
I’M PAYING ATTENTION TO MY ENERGY.
As usual, I went to the library with my laptop, got
away from my work environment and called into
the group. I was listening to your introduction
Michael, and today your words REVERBERATED
inside of me. I heard them many times before.
TODAY, I FELT THEM.
“DO NOT clutter your brain!”
“Linda and I are willing to GIVE YOU the MOST
PRECIOUS thing in life – OUR TIME!”
“DO NOT let ANYONE RENT SPACE IN YOUR
HEAD! DO NOT GIVE AWAY YOUR POWER!”
“IN 3-4 YEARS YOU CAN OWN YOUR LIFE!”
At this point, I was feeling intense sadness
and joy at the same time.
“At night, when we go to bed, we are going to
END UP WITH THE TRUTH! We might as well
START THE DAY WITH THE TRUTH!”
I was stunned with these words. I repeated this
to myself that night. So many things I’m not
doing, not completing, not committing to,
procrastinating. I wake up, in the early hours
of the morning, with thoughts traveling across
my mind like clouds in the sky.
They HAUNT ME. I feel sick to my stomach.
Deep down I feel what you have said – “IT IS
LATER THAN I THINK!!!” I’M AFRAID. I’M
AFRAID I’M NOT SPENDING MY PRECIOUS
TIME ON THE IMPORTANT THINGS IN MY
LIFE!!!
I have been domesticated to spend my days
doing everything but what is really important.
I live my life like grooves in a record playing
over and over again. I HAVE TO WAKE UP,
USE MY INTENTION, SHIFT MY POINT OF
VIEW and CREATE NEW GROOVES IN MY
RECORD, IN MY LIFE.
I’M PAYING ATTENTION and I’M DECIDING
WHAT TO SPEND MY ENERGY ON.
I’m asking and saying to myself: IS THIS
REALLY WHAT I WANT TO DO RIGHT NOW?
IS THIS IMPORTANT? AM I HAVING FUN?
I’M HERE ON THIS EARTH TO ENJOY LIFE.
IF IM NOT HAVING FUN, I HAVE THE
CHOICE TO DECIDE, AND I HAVE THE
POWER TO CHANGE IT.
I thank all the amazing folks on the Mental
Cleanse, I feel your souls through your voices
on the phone, every time I connect. I feel
the honesty and total trust to tell your stories.
I am blessed to have found the right
teachers at the right time in my life.
Connie Silvestri,
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Chapter 8
Procrastination and analyses paralysys are caused
by our lack of ability to make a decision….. We go
through this Mental Cleanse process to learn what
is stopping or holding us back. Often times it is a
lengthy, scary journey. It can be like going through
a tunnel, we go into the darkness but come out into
the light on the other side.
Hill tells us that we must make prompt decisions
and stick with them. We must not waiver or be
influenced by others who have no interest in our
desires. Thus, the importance of the Mastermind
Group. By only revealing our decision to other like
minded individuals we are able to remain focused.
When others outside of the group, learn prematurely
of our decisions and desires they may attempt to
detour us and not understand when we remain
steadfast.
I must reach my decision myself. It must be my
own decision, and not someone else. No one else
can do this for me. I must do it myself. It is like a
chick hatching from the egg,,, or the butterfly from
it’s chrysalis.. If they are to survive, they must do
it for themselves.
Going through this process, I have learned how
powerful the influences of parents and society
are on a small child growing up.
These influences remain buried in our subconscious
all our lives, but unknown to us, influence us on a
daily basis. But I have the power to change and
overcome these influences. I have the ability to
make my own decisions.
Donna Catron
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Chapter 8 Decision:
OK, let’s take it from the top and review:
I usually make decisions quickly, but I must
confess I have been influenced by the opinions
of others and end up second guessing myself.
When I was young I was consistently told I
should have done it this way or that way would
have been better and a voice inside of me would
say “I’m not good enough.”
I have battled this voice for long enough. No, I
will not reverse my decision to move forward
with my dreams no matter how old I am, or
how long it takes. This is a journey that I will
see through to the end.
No, I have never lost out on an opportunity
because I “failed” to “make” a decision, I just
didn’t follow through with the decision that I
made.
I let the opinions of others change my course
of action. I have made many decisions contrary
to the opinions and advice of others, but then
that voice came back to visit when things were
not going as I had hoped and then I seemed to
sabotage my progress.
So, who is the enemy here, a-ha, I think it is my
own self. I now understand why it is so important
to say my self talk and keep the voices of the
past and the opinions of others who, don’t have
what I want, blocked out of my head.
To do this I must stay close to fire and my master
mind group who will be in complete sympathy and
harmony with my purpose.
I am in the process of learning HOW to think and
not WHAT to think. Thank you Wendy Krick for
reminding me of this last week in your lesson.
I appreciate you and all of my master mind family.
My husband keeps telling me,” as hard as you
work at this, you deserve success.” The decision
I have make today is to believe that I do deserve
success.
Thank you Michael and Linda for believing in me
while I learn to completely believe and love myself.
Judy Narum
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CHAPTER 8 - DECISION
Michael, it is Wednesday, 10 September, Mental
Cleanse call day. This morning I see clarity and
feel the difference from my usual diffused cluttered
mind. I’M PAYING ATTENTION TO MY ENERGY.
As usual, I went to the library with my laptop, got
away from my work environment and called into
the group. I was listening to your introduction
Michael, and today your words REVERBERATED
inside of me. I heard them many times before.
TODAY, I FELT THEM.
“DO NOT clutter your brain!”
“Linda and I are willing to GIVE YOU the MOST
PRECIOUS thing in life – OUR TIME!”
“DO NOT let ANYONE RENT SPACE IN YOUR
HEAD! DO NOT GIVE AWAY YOUR POWER!”
“IN 3-4 YEARS YOU CAN OWN YOUR LIFE!”
At this point, I was feeling intense sadness
and joy at the same time.
“At night, when we go to bed, we are going to
END UP WITH THE TRUTH! We might as
well START THE DAY WITH THE TRUTH!”
I was stunned with these words. I repeated
this to myself that night. So many things
I’m not doing, not completing, not committing
to, procrastinating.
I wake up, in the early hours of the morning,
with thoughts traveling across my mind like
clouds in the sky. They HAUNT ME. I feel
sick to my stomach. Deep down I feel what
you have said – “IT IS LATER THAN I THINK!!!”
I’M AFRAID.
I’M AFRAID I’M NOT SPENDING MY
PRECIOUS TIME ON THE IMPORTANT
THINGS IN MY LIFE!!!
I have been domesticated to spend my days
doing everything but what is really important.
I live my life like grooves in a record playing
over and over again. I HAVE TO WAKE UP,
USE MY INTENTION, SHIFT MY POINT OF
VIEW and CREATE NEW GROOVES IN
MY RECORD, IN MY LIFE.
I’M PAYING ATTENTION and I’M DECIDING
WHAT TO SPEND MY ENERGY ON. I’m
asking and saying to myself:
IS THIS REALLY WHAT I WANT TO DO
RIGHT NOW? IS THIS IMPORTANT? AM
I HAVING FUN? I’M HERE ON THIS
EARTH TO ENJOY LIFE. IF IM NOT
HAVING FUN, I HAVE THE CHOICE TO
DECIDE, AND I HAVE THE POWER TO
CHANGE IT.
I thank all the amazing folks on the Mental
Cleanse, I feel your souls through your
voices on the phone, every time I connect.
I feel the honesty and total trust to tell
your stories. I am blessed to have found
the right teachers at the right time in my life.
Connie Silvestri, Bisbee,
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Chapter 8
Procrastination, I have dealt with it all my
life. I have always taken a little tooo long
to do what it is I had decided to do and
yes I changed the decision a lot.
Which left me worse off than when I first
made the decision. I have always relied
on the wrong people to help me in making
decisions.
I have taken opinions from those that have
wanted me to stay the “little girl” they have
always seen me as. I am always a step
behind them and they like it this way.
So I had to make a quick decision to
separate myself from these people. Was
this easy, NO. In doing so I slipped back
to procrastination.
Did I do the right thing for my kids, myself,
my husband? Slowly killing every dream
and goal I had set for myself. I was drowning
in self pity and honestly NOT liking the”me”
I was becoming.
I half heartely listened to these calls, and
actually fell asleep a few times during them.
Then, I made another quick decision to go
on a little trip to Texas.
I couldn’t think about it anymore! I had to
ACT! This was also in part because of
another little mastermind group within my
team of leaders who were “believing in me,
even though I wasn’t convinced to believe
in myself.”
So I went to Texas, met awesome leaders.
People of all walks of life, short, tall, red
headed, some wore glasses, some didn’t,
it didn’t matter what they looked like, they
were my family!
Not in the traditional sense, but family that
all wanted the same thing, SUCCESS!
Success for themselves, all those around
them, and for ME!
Do you know what it is like to be in a room
of amazing people, who all have positive
energy flowing from them. Let me tell you,
amazing is not a good enough word.
I don’t think one has been made up for what
that feeling is like! What is amazing though,
is the fact that not only did I meet these
wonderful leaders face to face, but I now
almost everyday get to listen to them, and
I am soaking up every bit of advice they are
giving! I am positive, without one doubt that
I am SUCCESSFUL,
I am achieving my dreams and goals. Did you
ever see Charlie and the Chocolate Factory?
Maybe read the book? Do you remember at
the end when Charlie and Mr.Wonka rode the
elevator straight out of the building through
the glass roof?
Do you remember wondering if they would
make it? Then when they did the joy in your
heart? I do!! Let me tell you I have just broke
through the glass roof and I am flying high
above it all!
Wooo Hooo, what a feeling!
Love to you all,
Rhonda Wudarczyk
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Chapter 7 Decision
Everyone needs to learn how to make decisions
on their own.Yes sometimes you need to change
your mind if you do not fill the decision you made
is not right.
One of the first and most important rules is not to
be influenced by others. Take no one into your
confidence except the member of the Master Mind
Group. Again you need to be sure of the selection
of this group.
Finally I realize that I do have a brain and can use
it on my own. I can now make my own decisions
without the help of others. So many times I have
learned that if I open my mouth, in the presenses
of other I have displayed the exact stock of my
knowledge or lack of it.
That same person who calls themself a friend
has taken my information and used the
information for their own good.
Napoleon HIll states that it not only took the
courage of fifty-six men to sign the ” Declaration
of Independence” in 1776 but it also meant
they were putting their life on the line.
Can you imagine what would have happened
if any of the men went to the British Solders
and leaked this information that was happening
behind the closed doors.
Are you looking for a miracle. Stop!! You will not
find it here. It takes six principles: desire,
decision, faith, persistance, being involed in the
Master Mind Group and organized planning. Also, it
takes doing your lessons every week.
I am really beginning to find my inner self which
has been hidden for years. Thanks to Michael
and Linda for being in me. Also thanks to Terri
Pattio and to Irma White.
Judy Cook
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Chapter 8
Decision, The Mastery of Procrastination
Second Round September 16 2008
Hi Michael
We’ve been wondering a long time, and more
so lately …
“Why don’t spouses support each other?”
This is Hill’s phrase from Chapter 8 that struck
me this time:
“Close friends and relatives, while not meaning
to do so, often handicap one through ‘opinions’
and sometimes through ridicule, which is meant
to be humorous. Thousands of men and women
carry inferiority complexes with them all through
life, because some well-meaning, but ignorant
person destroyed their confidence through
‘opinions’ or ridicule.”
I’ve been listening to Robert Anthony lately,
and I can now with confidence disagree with
Napoleon Hill on this one …
People who ridicule you are NOT well meaning,
even though they cloak their comments with
sugary phrases that sound as though they have
your best interests at heart.
They DO NOT.
People who ridicule you DO NOT intend to be
humorous, even though they cloak their
comments with a nervous laugh, hoping that
no one questions the source of their nervousness.
They are NOT trying to be funny or amuse you.
People who ridicule you ARE NOT ignorant.
They may plead ignorance of your feelings,
but be assured that they know EXACTLY
what they are doing, perhaps not on a
conscious level, but they DO know what
they are doing.
They are trying to bring you down.
They NEED to bring you down.
We’ve all heard the crabs in the bucket story
where when one crab tries to climb out of the
bucket, the other crabs reach up and pull the
escapee back down.
Robert Anthony tells us that people must
dismiss and trivialize our goals and dreams,
because if they listened to us, they would
have to question their own lives and think
about the dreams that they have abandoned.
Too scary for most.
Better to mock than look within.
Bob Dylan says it best in
It’s Alright Ma (I’m Only Bleeding)
” For them that must obey authority
That they do not respect in any degree
Who despise their jobs, their destinies
Speak jealously of them that are free
…
While one who sings with his tongue on fire
Gargles in the rat race choir
Bent out of shape from society’s pliers
Cares not to come up any higher
But rather get you down in the hole
That he’s in.”
So this is my advice:
Every time you hear an opinion about your
new venture, or a phrase that contains the
phrase “you should”, or a joking remark that
stings, or any reminder of what you used to be,
or where you came from, and how you will never
be any better even though you know you can be,
or any comment at all that feels like dogs
leaping from the ditch and snapping rabidly
at the wheels of your new vehicle,
STOP.
Stop and ask yourself …
Why does this person need to bark at me?
What is this person afraid of?
Does this person have my best interests at heart?
What will happen to this person if I change?
Why does this person want me to remain as I am
and not grow as I want to grow?
What would I lose if I increased the distance
between myself and this person?
And then stop again and ask yourself …
“Why did I begin this adventure if I didn’t
intend to complete it?”
“Will I allow others to keep me from my dream?”
Tough choices and tough decisions.
Follow your heart and go back to the beginning
of this chapter where Hill tells us to make
decisions quickly and change them slowly.
It’s YOUR life.
Make a decision NOW about how
you are going to live it.
Change that decision slowly, if at all.
Bob Bassett
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Henrietta
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