Making a sound decision and sticking to it, can be difficult.  When you do and you stick to it like you have been crazy glued to it, you have a far greater chance of success then if you were wishy washy, constantly changing your mind.


CHAPTER
8  - DECISION

Michael,  it is Wednesday, 10 September, Mental
Cleanse call day.  This morning I see clarity and feel
the difference from my usual diffused cluttered mind.

I’M PAYING ATTENTION TO MY ENERGY.

As usual, I went to the library with my laptop, got
away from my work environment and called into
the group.  I was listening to your introduction
Michael, and today your words REVERBERATED
inside of me.  I heard them many times before.

TODAY, I FELT THEM.

“DO NOT clutter your brain!”

“Linda and I are willing to GIVE YOU the MOST
PRECIOUS thing in life – OUR TIME!”

“DO NOT let ANYONE RENT SPACE IN YOUR
HEAD!  DO NOT GIVE AWAY YOUR POWER!”

“IN 3-4 YEARS YOU CAN OWN YOUR LIFE!”
At this point, I was feeling intense sadness
and joy at the same time.

“At night, when we go to bed, we are going to
END UP WITH THE TRUTH!  We might as well
START THE DAY WITH THE TRUTH!”

I was stunned with these words.  I repeated this
to myself that night.  So many things I’m not
doing, not completing, not committing to,
procrastinating.  I wake up, in the early hours
of the morning, with thoughts traveling across
my mind like clouds in the sky.

They HAUNT ME.  I feel sick to my stomach.
Deep down I feel what you have said – “IT IS
LATER THAN I THINK!!!”  I’M AFRAID.  I’M
AFRAID I’M NOT SPENDING MY PRECIOUS
TIME ON THE IMPORTANT THINGS IN MY
LIFE!!!

I have been domesticated to spend my days
doing everything but what is really important.
I live my life like grooves in a record playing
over and over again.  I HAVE TO WAKE UP,
USE MY INTENTION, SHIFT MY POINT OF
VIEW and CREATE NEW GROOVES IN MY
RECORD, IN MY LIFE.

I’M PAYING ATTENTION and I’M DECIDING
WHAT TO SPEND MY ENERGY ON.

I’m asking and saying to myself:  IS THIS
REALLY WHAT I WANT TO DO RIGHT NOW?
IS THIS IMPORTANT?  AM I HAVING FUN?
I’M HERE ON THIS EARTH TO ENJOY LIFE.

IF IM NOT HAVING FUN, I HAVE THE
CHOICE TO DECIDE, AND I HAVE THE
POWER TO CHANGE IT.

I thank all the amazing folks on the Mental
Cleanse, I feel your souls through your voices
on the phone, every time I connect.   I feel
the honesty and total trust to tell your stories.

I am blessed to have found the right
teachers at the right time in my life.

Connie Silvestri,
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Chapter 8

Procrastination and analyses paralysys are caused
by our lack of ability to make a decision…..  We go
through this Mental Cleanse process to learn what
is stopping or holding us back.  Often times it is a
lengthy, scary journey.  It can be like going through
a tunnel, we go into the darkness but come out into
the light on the other side.

Hill tells us that we must make prompt decisions
and stick with them.  We must not waiver or be
influenced by others who have no interest in our
desires.  Thus, the importance of the Mastermind
Group.  By only revealing our decision to other like
minded individuals we are able to remain focused.

When others outside of the group, learn prematurely
of our decisions and desires they may attempt to
detour us and not understand when we remain
steadfast.

  I must reach my decision myself.  It must be my
own decision, and not someone else.  No one else
can do this for me. I must do it myself.  It is like a
chick hatching from the egg,,, or the butterfly from
it’s chrysalis..  If they are to survive, they must do
it for themselves.

Going through this process, I have learned how
powerful the influences of parents and society
are on a small child growing up.

These influences remain buried in our subconscious
all our lives, but unknown to us, influence us on a
daily basis.  But I have the power to change and
overcome these influences.  I have the ability to
make my own decisions.

Donna Catron
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Chapter 8 Decision:

OK, let’s take it from the top and review:

  I usually make decisions quickly, but I must
confess I have been influenced by  the opinions
of others and end up second guessing myself.

  When I was young I was consistently told I
should have done it this way or that way would
have been better and a voice inside of me would
say “I’m not good enough.”

I have battled this voice for long enough. No, I
will not reverse my decision to move forward
with my dreams no matter how old I am, or
how long it takes. This is a journey that I will
see through to the end.

  No, I have never lost out on an opportunity
because I “failed” to “make” a decision, I just
didn’t follow through with the decision that I
made.

 I let the opinions of others change my course
of action. I have made many decisions contrary
to the opinions and advice of others, but then
that voice came back to visit when things were
not going as I had hoped and then I seemed to
sabotage my progress.

So, who is the enemy here, a-ha, I think it is my
own self. I now understand why it is so important
to say my self talk and keep the voices of the
past and the opinions of others who, don’t have
what I want, blocked out of my head.

To do this I must stay close to fire and my master
mind group who will be in complete sympathy and
harmony with my purpose.

I am in the process of learning HOW to think and
not WHAT to think. Thank you Wendy Krick for
reminding me of this last week in your lesson.

I appreciate you and all of my master mind family.

 My husband keeps telling me,” as hard as you
work at this, you deserve success.” The decision
I have make today is to believe that I do deserve
success.

Thank you Michael and Linda for believing in me
while I learn to completely believe and love myself.

Judy Narum
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
CHAPTER 8  - DECISION

 Michael,  it is Wednesday, 10 September, Mental
Cleanse call day.  This morning I see clarity and
feel the difference from my usual diffused cluttered
mind.  I’M PAYING ATTENTION TO MY ENERGY.

As usual, I went to the library with my laptop, got
away from my work environment and called into
the group.  I was listening to your introduction
Michael, and today your words REVERBERATED
inside of me.  I heard them many times before.

TODAY, I FELT THEM.

“DO NOT clutter your brain!”

“Linda and I are willing to GIVE YOU the MOST
PRECIOUS thing in life – OUR TIME!”

“DO NOT let ANYONE RENT SPACE IN YOUR
HEAD!  DO NOT GIVE AWAY YOUR POWER!”

“IN 3-4 YEARS YOU CAN OWN YOUR LIFE!”
At this point, I was feeling intense sadness
and joy at the same time.

“At night, when we go to bed, we are going to
END UP WITH THE TRUTH!  We might as
well START THE DAY WITH THE TRUTH!”

I was stunned with these words.  I repeated
this to myself that night.  So many things
I’m not doing, not completing, not committing
to, procrastinating.

I wake up, in the early hours of the morning,
with thoughts traveling across my mind like
clouds in the sky.  They HAUNT ME.  I feel
sick to my stomach.   Deep down I feel what
you have said – “IT IS LATER THAN I THINK!!!”
I’M AFRAID.

I’M AFRAID I’M NOT SPENDING MY
PRECIOUS TIME ON THE IMPORTANT
THINGS IN MY LIFE!!!

I have been domesticated to spend my days
doing everything but what is really important.
I live my life like grooves in a record playing
over and over again.  I HAVE TO WAKE UP,
USE MY INTENTION, SHIFT MY POINT OF
VIEW and CREATE NEW GROOVES IN
MY RECORD, IN MY LIFE.

I’M PAYING ATTENTION and I’M DECIDING
WHAT TO SPEND MY ENERGY ON.  I’m
asking and saying to myself:

IS THIS REALLY WHAT I WANT TO DO
RIGHT NOW?  IS THIS IMPORTANT?  AM
I HAVING FUN?  I’M HERE ON THIS
EARTH TO ENJOY LIFE.  IF IM NOT
HAVING FUN, I HAVE THE CHOICE TO
DECIDE, AND I HAVE THE POWER TO
CHANGE IT.

I thank all the amazing folks on the Mental
Cleanse, I feel your souls through your
voices on the phone, every time I connect.

I feel the honesty and total trust to tell
your stories.  I am blessed to have found
the right teachers at the right time in my life.

Connie Silvestri, Bisbee,
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Chapter 8

Procrastination, I have dealt with it all my
life. I have always taken a little tooo long
to do what it is I had decided to do and
yes I changed the decision a lot.

Which left me worse off than when I first
made the decision. I have always relied
on the wrong people to help me in making
decisions.

I have taken opinions from those that have
wanted me to stay the “little girl” they have
always seen me as. I am always a step
behind them and they like it this way.

So I had to make a quick decision to
separate myself from these people. Was
this easy, NO. In doing so I slipped back
to procrastination.

Did I do the right thing for my kids, myself,
my husband? Slowly killing every dream
and goal I had set for myself. I was drowning
in self pity and honestly NOT liking the”me”
I was becoming.

I half heartely listened to these calls, and
actually fell asleep a few times during them.
Then, I made another quick decision to go
on a little trip to Texas.

I couldn’t think about it anymore! I had to
ACT! This was also in part because of
another little mastermind group within my
team of leaders who were “believing in me,
even though I wasn’t convinced to believe
in myself.”

So I went to Texas, met awesome leaders.
People of all walks of life, short, tall, red
headed, some wore glasses, some didn’t,
it didn’t matter what they looked like, they
were my family!

Not in the traditional sense, but family that
all wanted the same thing, SUCCESS!
Success for themselves, all those around
them, and for ME!

Do you know what it is like to be in a room
of amazing people,  who all have positive
energy flowing from them. Let me tell you,
amazing is not a good enough word.

I don’t think one has been made up for what
that feeling is like! What is amazing though,
is the fact that not only did I meet these
wonderful leaders face to face, but I now
almost everyday get to listen to them, and
I am soaking up every bit of advice they are
giving! I am positive, without one doubt that
I am  SUCCESSFUL,

I am achieving my dreams and goals. Did you
ever see Charlie and the Chocolate Factory?

Maybe read the book? Do you remember at
the end when Charlie and Mr.Wonka rode the
elevator straight out of the building through
the glass roof?

Do you remember wondering if they would
make it? Then when they did the joy in your
heart? I do!! Let me tell you I have just broke
through the glass roof and I am flying high
above it all!

Wooo Hooo, what a feeling!

Love to you all,
Rhonda Wudarczyk
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Chapter 7 Decision

Everyone needs to learn how to make decisions
on their own.Yes sometimes you need to change
your mind if you do not fill the decision you made
is not right.

One of the first and most important rules is not to
be influenced by others.  Take no one into your
confidence except the member of the Master Mind
Group.  Again you need to be sure of the selection
of this group.

Finally I  realize that I do have a brain and can use
it on my own.  I can now make my own decisions
without  the help of others.  So many times I have
learned that if I open my mouth, in the presenses
of other I have displayed  the exact stock of my
knowledge or lack of it.

That same person who  calls themself a friend
has taken my  information and used the
information for their own good.

Napoleon HIll states that it not only took the
courage of fifty-six men to sign the ” Declaration
of Independence”  in  1776 but it also meant
they were putting their life on the line.

Can you imagine what would have happened
if any of the men  went to the British Solders
and leaked this information that was happening
behind the closed doors.

Are you looking for a miracle.  Stop!! You will not
find it here.  It takes six principles: desire,
decision, faith, persistance, being involed in the
Master Mind Group and organized planning.  Also, it
takes doing your lessons every week.

I am really beginning to find my inner self which
has been hidden for years.  Thanks to Michael
and Linda for being in me.  Also thanks to Terri
Pattio and to Irma White.

Judy Cook
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Chapter 8
Decision, The Mastery of Procrastination
Second Round September 16 2008

Hi Michael

We’ve been wondering a long time, and more
so lately …

“Why don’t spouses support each other?”

This is Hill’s phrase from Chapter 8 that struck
me this time:

“Close friends and relatives, while not meaning
to do so, often handicap one through ‘opinions’
and sometimes through ridicule, which is meant
to be humorous. Thousands of men and women
carry inferiority complexes with them all through
life, because some well-meaning, but ignorant
person destroyed their confidence through
‘opinions’ or ridicule.”

I’ve been listening to Robert Anthony lately,
and I can now with confidence disagree with
Napoleon Hill on this one …

People who ridicule you are NOT well meaning,
even though they cloak their comments with
sugary phrases that sound as though they have
your best interests at heart.

They DO NOT.

People who ridicule you DO NOT intend to be
humorous, even though they cloak their
comments with a nervous laugh, hoping that
no one questions the source of their nervousness.

They are NOT trying to be funny or amuse you.

People who ridicule you ARE NOT ignorant.

They may plead ignorance of your feelings,
but be assured that they know EXACTLY
what they are doing, perhaps not on a
conscious level, but they DO know what
they are doing.

They are trying to bring you down.

They NEED to bring you down.

We’ve all heard the crabs in the bucket story
where when one crab tries to climb out of the
bucket, the other crabs reach up and pull the
escapee back down.

Robert Anthony tells us that people must
dismiss and trivialize our goals and dreams,
because if they listened to us, they would
have to question their own lives and think
about the dreams that they have abandoned.

Too scary for most.

Better to mock than look within.

Bob Dylan says it best in
It’s Alright Ma (I’m Only Bleeding)

” For them that must obey authority
That they do not respect in any degree
Who despise their jobs, their destinies
Speak jealously of them that are free

While one who sings with his tongue on fire
Gargles in the rat race choir
Bent out of shape from society’s pliers
Cares not to come up any higher
But rather get you down in the hole
That he’s in.”

So this is my advice:

Every time you hear an opinion about your
new venture, or a phrase that contains the
phrase “you should”, or a joking remark that
stings, or any reminder of what you used to be,
or where you came from, and how you will never
be any better even though you know you can be,
or any comment at all that feels like dogs
leaping from the ditch and snapping rabidly
at the wheels of your new vehicle,

STOP.

Stop and ask yourself …

Why does this person need to bark at me?

What is this person afraid of?

Does this person have my best interests at heart?

What will happen to this person if I change?

Why does this person want me to remain as I am
and not grow as I want to grow?

What would I lose if I increased the distance
between myself and this person?

And then stop again and ask yourself …

“Why did I begin this adventure if I didn’t
intend to complete it?”

“Will I allow others to keep me from my dream?”

Tough choices and tough decisions.

Follow your heart and go back to the beginning
of this chapter where Hill tells us to make
decisions quickly and change them slowly.

It’s YOUR life.

Make a decision NOW about how
you are going to live it.

Change that decision slowly, if at all.

Bob Bassett

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Sep 172008

It will never cease to amaze me how brilliant my mastermind group is!


Sometimes you just don’t feel like doing what you know
needs to be done. Look at the Mental Cleanse call. Some
times it is difficult to know what to say or write when
you are sending in your lesson.

It would be real easy to say to yourself, Michael gets
hundreds of lessons, he won’t notice if I don’t send
in mine”.

But being a Leader means being committed.  You owe it
to yourself and this mastermind group to give of your
self Freely. It is important for all of us. Did you
know you could touch someone’s life with your words?

Or you may hear something today that will change your
life forever. Knowing this, why would you not get on
the calls or turn in your lesson?

It is important for me to surround myself with “like
minded” people who are going in the same direction
as me. This keeps me focused and on track. It is
almost like therapy.

With Mentoring For Free we have all the tools we need
to own our life. Growing a business can feel like an
uphill climb at times but it is a climb we are all
making together as a mastermind group.

However, no one can take my steps but me. I must be the
one to take action, do my self talk, get on the calls
and turn in my lessons. Yes, I must be the leader.

I must take the steps. But it sure is nice to know that
there are lots of hands ready to catch me if I fall. I
feel blessed to know there are people to help push me
back up and point me back in the right direction.

Thank you Michael, Linda and all of the beautiful
members in Mentoring For Free.  I am feeling very
loved and blessed today!

You’re Friend For Life,
Wendy krick
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Chapter 7: Organized Planning

 ”Some people foolishly believe that only money can
make money. This is not true. Desire, transmuted into
it’s monetary equivalent, through the principles in
this book, is the way money is made.” Wow!

 I used to believe that. That was one reason why I
closed a successful store that I built from nothing
to full in five months, one day before the July long
weekend that would have seen a small town swell to
about 300% over the summer.

I believed that I didn’t have enough capital to back
it up, even though I was getting an excellent response
from the local residence and I had products and
services that would be utilized by those residence
during the off season.

The resort season brings in people from all over the
world! What kept me from staying open for at least one
season, you may be asking? FEAR! Of success, of failure,
of responsibility, of lack, of what people thought of
me, what I thought of myself…

What drove the fear? The mindset! You need money to
make money and so on. I am a leader in the making.
I have been searching for someone and something to
follow that was noble, truthful and fulfilling.

I thought that I was leaning on the quitter side of
things because of my pattern of getting into something
new then getting out. I know there are many reasons for
this but here I would like to just focus on one.

I didn’t feel good about what I was getting into when the “honeymoon” period was over. When I made up my mind
that I did not want to do something that made me feel
bad then I would let it go, easily.

I can see now that I hadn’t found something that
provided what I had definitely decided I wanted,
noble, truthful and fulfilling. Things seemed to
meet my requirements when first presented then I
would feel bad and run!

Like I said there is more to it then that although
I must say that I now realize that my inner being
was sending myself warning signs that what I truly
wanted was not what I was looking in the face of.
I have witnessed the blossoming of my awareness,
and I want more!

This group and these studies are what I have been
searching for and now I know it like I know, like
I know, like I know. Thanks everyone!

Talk to you soon,

Nancy Innes
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Hello Michael

I just looked back at my first lesson for this
chapter and found that I was struck then by
the same thing then as I am now – the idea
of becoming a ‘go-giver’.

Chapter 7 must be trying to tell me something.

This time through the book, we are actually
following the instructions and saying our self
talk which includes the phrase “have fun helping
anyone and everyone … “

We’re having more fun and more success and
meeting many more people now than we did
previously.

What a great way to do business!  It’s not like
business at all.  It’s finding friends and helping
them, and as Tom says “The more problems
you solve, the more people you help, the more
successful you will be.”

Bob Bassett
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
My thoughts on Organized Planning

I have always believed that only money can
make money….not true…
Desire, transmuted into its monetary
equivalent, through the principles laid
in this book..Think and Grow Rich..is the
agency through which money is made.

Money of itself is nothing but inert matter.
It cannot move, think, or talk..but it can
hear when a man who desires it, calls it to come!

It’s coming to me.

I want to be  a leader and not a follower..
and thank goodness leaders are made and not usually
born…so I can grow into a leader..

I have a great mastermind group, and I have amazing
leaders to follow….leaders who are already successful
in what they’re doing…I just have to follow them..
and do what they do to get that success.

Would I sponsor me?  Would I follow me?

I need to become the person I need to be
for people to want to follow me…

I need to keep learning to get more
self-confident, definiteness of decision,
must plan my work..and work my plan.and
willingness to assume full responsibilities

In network marketing…you are really selling
yourself…people don’t care what company I
belong to, am I the person they can follow..
or want to follow.

Hill already says in this book, the day of the
go-getter has passed..and has been supplanted
by the go-giver!!

To avoid failure in my life I have to have a
well-defined purpose in life, willing to pay the
price. get educated..learn the skills, be
self-disciplined….Hill says self-mastery is
the hardest job I will ever tackle…be persistent,
concentration, enthusiasm.

Hill says step up to the front, select what you want,
create your plan, put the plan into action and follow
through with persistence..

I want financial freedom, I want to own my life…
and with following leaders
that are already successful, belonging to a mastermind
group in MentoringForFree…staying close to the
fire..staying accountable to a group of people…
keeps me focused..keeps me on track…..

Mentoring for Free, what a system, what a team,
what a family…so blessed for this to have
come into my life….

Thank you Michael & Linda
for all that you do..

I appreciate you.

Your Friend for Life

Cindy

Weren’t those a great read?  You should hear the authors read their lessons live.  Now that IS living!

Henrietta
TheMentoringMom

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How is your imagination? 


IMAGINATION

If you have been in this group since early June, you
have already heard the first part of this story.  If
you just went to the same company convention
that I attended…you were privileged to experience
a happy ending to the story.

It was originally “published” under the “Persistence”
chapter…but I think it will  probably work for the
“Imagination” chapter as well.

For those of you who did not hear the first part of
this “saga”…well, sit back and relax a few minutes
and listen…it was my “lesson” most remembered.from
what I heard at convention anyway. It goes like this..

I want to share a little story with you about one of
life’s little pearls of wisdom as taught to me by my
Uncle D–I’ll just call him Uncle D because his full
name is spelled funny and is hard to say…but Uncle
D is quite a bit older than me and you’ll under-
stand about his wit and wisdom by the end of my story.

Uncle D is always helping me out with life’s challenges,
so when he asked me one day to help him out with a
project, I was anxious to find out what on earth Uncle D
would need my help to do.  He said, “I’ve got somethin’
real special under this here car cover, and I need you
to be here every day just to make sure nothin’ happens
to it, because I need it to be perfect by August 28th–
it’s a special day and a lot of people are counting on
it being perfect on that day.

But, do not take the cover off of it til August 27th.I’m
gonna be real busy between now and then helpin’ a lot of
people figure things out, so I need YOU to take care of
this for me.”

And that’s all Uncle D said about it.

Well, I didn’t want to sound stupid, and for sure, I
wanted to please Uncle D and have everything be perfect
for him on August 28th, so I needed to get busy, because
I sure didn’t want Uncle D to think I was incompetent
when he needed me to help him out.

I need to get to work on this project right away.  Yes,
there was a car cover over what appeared to be the
shape of a Ford Mustang; and just a little peek under
the edge of the cover told me it was candy apple red.

I wonder why this car is so special to Uncle D – but
it obviously is, so I’ve got to make things perfect
for him by August 28th–but Uncle D said I couldn’t
take this cover off til August 27th, so I’ll have to
be creative.

I’m not sure that flimsy little car cover is really
heavy enough to protect this car til August 28th, so
if I just use some duct tape and overlap these two big
tarps over here together, and I string some of this
strong yellow nylon rope through the grommets on the
tarps–let’s see–here are some old pulleys over here
in the corner.

I think if I climb up into the rafters and rig these
pulleys in just the right spots, I’ll be able to get
this huge tarp suspended by the ropes so that it hangs
just above this prized possession so that it keeps the
dust from settling on that car cover–it’s kind of a
thin little thing and I’m not sure it can handle the
pressure til August 28th.

Wow, that was a big job–I haven’t climbed around
in the rafters in a long time–I’m glad I’ve been
doin’ some workin’ out lately–that was heavy!

OK, what else?  Uncle D has this fancy schmancy
dehumidifier running day and night in here, but I
really think it will be more effective if I take this
garden hose that’s running over to the drain off of
it and cap that thing and I’ll just empty that tank
myself–I know it’ll take very careful monitoring,
but I want to please Uncle D and whoever is counting
on him for this big thing on August 28th.I just think
if I empty it myself every hour–well, then I’ll know
it’s been done right.

And I really think there needs to be some fresh air
circulating in here so that no humidity gets caught
up under that flimsy little car cover.  I’ll just
raise up the big overhead door a couple of feet.  But
I can’t let bugs get in here.  Oh here we go…I’ll use
this screen that’s rolled up over here and these boards–
here’s a staple gun…I’ll just build a screen frame to
put up in this two foot gap that will keep out the
critters–the big ones and the little ones.

Well, I probably better just raise that overhead door
and put the screens up maybe 15 minutes out of
every hour because I can’t let too much dust blow
in here.

Oh shoot!!  I knew that corner of the tarp wasn’t roped
into that pulley as well as the other corners.  I was
afraid that was going to happen.  Now I’ve got to get
the ladder back out again and get up in those rafters
again.  I’m going to strap that puppy in there this time
with some duct tape…that way I know for sure it won’t
be fallin’ again.  And I know Uncle D will be so proud
of how hard I’m working to make his project a success!

Now… the big one–I’ve been thinking about how to do
this part for so long, but now that things seem to be
under control here for a little bit,well.I guess I can’t
be gone too long.  I’ll need to dump that dehumidifier
tank and take the screens down so I can shut the
overhead door, but I’ll have about 45 minutes that I
can work on this part every hour until the job is done
right.

I’m headed to the local coffee shops.  I told you I was
the Queen of Persistence and Uncle D is going to be
so pleased–you know he’s quite a lot older than myself
and he’s so smart and full of wisdom–I just want to get
this project done perfectly for him!  So, I thought to
myself while I’ve been working on all these other things
–how am I going to get this car running perfectly by
August 28th if I can’t even uncover it til August 27th?

Well, Uncle D always says Im a “brilliant person” so I
think I’m about to make him even prouder. I’m going to
go to every coffee shop in town over the next few weeks
and with my notebook and pens in hand, I’m going to buy
a cuppa coffee for every unemployed mechanic in town
and interview each one of them to get their ideas for
what they think would be the best approach to getting
this car running perfectly when we’re only going to have
one day to get the actual job done–that is going to take
some definite planning and organizing.

But before I buy them a cuppa coffee, I’ll do some
preliminary screening to see if they own any Chilton’s
Manuals, because if they don’t, I know there’s no point
in wasting my time even talking to them.Everybody knows
that a mechanic worth his salt has Chilton’s Manuals.

OK–I’ll have to run back to the garage at the end of
every interview to dump the dehumidifier and put the
screens up and down in the doorway–I can’t let that
door stay up too long at a time.I guess I better climb
back up in the rafters and check those pulleys again–
I don’t want another one of them breaking loose!

Alright–the mechanics–Im really glad these guys are
unemployed right now because they’ll have more time to
talk to me about this.  And, since they’ve just been
hangin’ out at the coffee shop all day, they’ve had
time to clear their minds and will be able to brain
storm with me about the best way to accomplish this
tune-up in less than one day.  Oh my gosh–what if
the car needs more than a tune-up when we get that
cover off?

And I better find an air conditioner specialist–not
every mechanic has the specialized equipment to work
on that stuff.  I’ll line up the local tire shop for
that day just in case we need his expertise on the 27th.

I can’t take a chance that he’ll be too busy to help
us if we have a tire or wheel problem.

And the stereo system–that will need a specialist,
just in case it’s not working properly.  And what if
the rear view mirror has come unglued and fallen down
on the dash while this car has been under cover? Well,
I’ll just ask some of the unemployed specialists when
I interview them–they’ll surely know what I need to
do to handle all these challenges!

Wow, all that coffee and three spirals full of notes…
Uncle D will be so pleased and proud of me for putting
so much effort into making sure nothin’ happens to his
prize possession and that it’s perfect by the 28th of
August so all the people who are counting on Uncle D
won’t be disappointed.

I think I’m ready for the unveiling today…I got here
really early cause I know Uncle D will arrive this
morning to uncover the car and I’ve got everybody lined
up and on stand-by to go to work to make things perfect.

We’ll only have a 24-hour window and I’m so nervous;
I’ve got so much “on my plate” today…this has got
to be perfect and I’ve really worked so hard on this
project for Uncle D.

I owed him that much–he’s done so much for me!!  But,
I am really looking forward to a day off;  I’m so tired
and stressed-out trying to get this all pulled together
perfectly for Uncle D and whoever these people are that
he wants this to be perfect for.

Oh my gosh…I hear him driving up–I’d recognize the
“purr” of that Corvette anywhere!  I better get these
screens out of the doorway.  Uncle D will be wanting to
raise the door to get this prize unveiled–let’s see if
I was right about the shape–is it a Mustang–a candy
apple red one?

Uncle D strolled through the garage door with his shades
on and the car keys jangling in his hands, hollering,”Who
are all these flippin’ idiots out here with big tool boxes
and air wrenches and tire jacks and glue guns and every
other flippin’ tool under the sun?  Well, I don’t know,
but I’m takin’ this cover off–this baby is perfect just
the way she is and all I have to do is get in and drive
it!!

See ya later, Patti –thanks for watchin’ things for me.
I knew nothin’ would go wrong if you were in charge
cause you’re the most persistent person I know and
you will take care of business. Thanks for keeping
your eye on things.  I’m headed to Houston!”

Well, Uncle D was right…I was persistent, but when it
came down to it, everything was already perfect just the
way it was; all I really needed to do was take the cover
off of the already fine tuned, perfectly created “machine”,
get in, and drive it!

I didn’t have to fix it or coddle it at all;  I didn’t
even have to figure it out or understand what made it
tick.  I’ve wasted a lot of time and energy here and I
think I now see that being persistent is only worthwhile
if I focus my persistence on truth and reality.  I don’t
need to fix something that’s not broken; so by accepting
Uncle D’s wisdom that I am a brilliant person and I’m
perfect just the way I am, I can yank my dust cover off
this ole Buick and just get in and drive!!  And gear up
my persistence on a plan that’s been proven to work –
Mentoring For Free – 1, 2, 3!

~~~And Now…The continuation of the story…..

Well…Uncle D made it to Houston in the 2008 Candy
Apple Red, Gorgeous new Mustang!  When I got there,
it was a sad sight to see that beautiful machine sitting
under the Hilton Hotel’s front canopy…no car cover…no
tarp…no fancy dehumidifier…just hot sun beating down
and dusty fingerprints all over it.  The Team Banners
identified it as THE famous Mustang…but where were
all the caretakers???

Well, I took the opportunity to have my picture taken
with it, because I knew that in a couple of days, some
one very “Lucky” was going to be named the proud new
owner of this beautiful new…yet dusty…Mustang!
Who would it be?

Who is the strongest visualizer in this group? The
name drawn out of the box would undoubtedly show us
all whether or not this “Visualization Stuff” works.

Is it really true that a definite purpose backed by
a burning desire and supported with our Imagination
backed by emotion and intention…well, that doesn’t
exactly sound like “Luck” as some would like to think!

It sounds like something we can all do to create our
reality…but we have to participate in the process
obviously!  We can’t just go “poof” and have it appear!

Well, long story short…(fat chance)…the most vivid
description of her visualizations about winning this
Mustang were given on some of the team calls by our
Much-Loved Ms. Sarah Thompson.

Now if some of us didn’t have a strong visualization
of our own, do you think Sarah’s description of her
specific details of her visualization might have gotten
into our brains?  Do you think that her visualization
may have become OUR visualization if we didn’t
use our own abilities to Imagine and add emotion
and burning desire to winning that car ourselves?

Do You think Sarah’s visualization just expanded
exponentially as many of us started seeing HER
winning that car?

Can you see how many of us became co-visualizers
with Sarah…seeing HER burning desire in our own
mind’s eye…seeing what she would be wearing…
right down to her denim skirt and the color of her
shirt…and the wind blowing in her air as she drove
away!!

Do you think many of us visualized Sarah winning
that car rather than ourselves because we were
seeing HER “burning desire” in our mind’s eye after
listening to her detailed description of her
visualization numerous times on the team calls?

Do you think that it’s true…what we think about in
our most dominant thoughts becomes our reality???

YES…it does!!!  Sarah won the Mustang…and
the cabin for two on the cruise; Jennifer Fisher
won the laptop which she has had on her dream
board for over a year…the exact model, no less!
When Michael described it on the call, Jennifer
said it was hers…do you think her visualizations
with her emotions and burning desire may have
had anything to do with it becoming reality?  Or
do you believe she was just lucky…like Sarah??

Well, back to the Mustang…it was a wild and
crazy and exciting time when those winning
tickets were being called out!  Our soft-spoken
Ms. Sarah running and jumping into Uncle D’s
arms…I hope he had his back brace cinched
up for that one!  The screaming and tears of
emotion were boiling over the top at that moment!
The cameras were flashing and the videos were
rolling and ‘Mustang Sarah’ was given birth in
Reality after months of Labor Pains called
Imagination and Visualization tempered with
a burning desire and intense emotions…created
in the mind of our brilliant, self-disciplined Ms.
Sarah Thompson.

Did it take a whole lot of effort on her part to
sit and visualize and focus on her emotions and
imagination and visualizations EVERY DAY, more than
once each day??? YES!!

Was she just lucky??  NO!!!

The Power of Visualization is hanging out and blasting
itself at us from all directions in this experience!

If we don’t/can’t believe in Visualization and the
fact that what we think about in our most dominant
thoughts becomes our reality…well, sign up for
another round of the 30 Day Mental Cleanse!
It made a believer out of me!!!

P.S.  GUESS WHAT!  Right before Uncle D (who
had crawled into the driver’s seat by then) and
Mustang Sarah were about to pull away for the
“Maiden Voyage” in the brand new Mustang,
Uncle D wagged his finger at me and I thought
he might need me to wipe the sweat from his
brow or something…the man had been extremely
wound up through this exciting adventure!!

But no…he said…”go around and get in the back
seat behind Sarah…let’s go!!”  I guess Uncle D
thought two greens might add up to a blue…and
I didn’t wait to be asked twice!  Holy Crap!  You’ve
heard Uncle D’s stories about his wild and crazy
driving…well, I can testify that’s it’s all true!

I think he is probably on this call today from his
hands and knees in front of that hotel as he is
likely still scrubbing the black skid marks from
the fancy floor outside that hotel with his tooth
brush!

You would think that two greens would at least
put on their seatbelts before “TAKE OFF”…but
we didn’t have time!  WHAT A RIDE!  And we
all survived!  Uncle D gave us lessons on the
exact process to lay ten feet of rubber from
a dead stop…it was a personal development
experience!  And I know at least two greens
who flippin’ loved it!  Thanks, Uncle D, for
an amazing adventure from beginning to end!

And the saga continues as Mustang Sarah is
touring the country doing P.R. work for her
network marketing company.  The rest of us will
have backorders galore as she is wiping out the
company warehouse supply of products on her whirl
wind tour of the country!

She even exchanged sample product and a company
catalog with a state trooper who stopped her for
her autograph during her first day on tour.

She said he wouldn’t share his phone number with
her so she traded him some samples and a new
company magazine just unveiled at conference for
a warning ticket.  WHAT A DEAL!

MUSTANG SARAH AND UNCLE D…and of course, the Major
Workhorse of the Team…BEAUTIFUL LINDA…Thank You
for all that You do to help us all become successful!

I, for one, Love You All More Than You Can Possibly
Imagine! WHAT AN AMAZING “RIDE” THIS IS!!

Love Ya Bunches!
Patti Blevins

Henrietta
TheMentoringMom
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Chapter 5 of Think and Grow Rich

Will these short lessons inspire you this week?

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Hill gives us several examples of imagination creating
ideas, and  ideas stimulating imagination.

Imagination allowing, or causing, the use of ordinary
daily talents,  writing, reading, pasting, speaking and organizing being marshalled together to create a master
piece. Something extraordinary.

This is a tricky chapter. Imagination and ideas, ideas
and imagination. Like the chicken and the egg argument.
I can’t imagine one without the other.They go hand in
hand.

Hill talks about Ford and Carnegie and their mastermind
groups. Most of us don’t have answer men handy on the
payroll, showing up at the push of a button, to
enlighten us on topics we may know very little about.

But we have an equally powerful tool. We have our own mastermind groups. This is one of them. We gather here
to get information and insight from each other.

To pose questions and answer them. To stimulate thought, imagination, and create ideas.

We have multiple mastermind groups throughout MFF. Each
topic or training call, a mastermind group in itself,
of people with specialized information sharing it with
those who need it. Whether you are ready to use it right
now or not.

They are not at the end of an inter-office button, but
they are at the end of a phone line or e-mail message.

Imagination creates ideas, ideas like a mastermind group.

Mastermind groups provide me specialized information that
I wouldn’t have on my own. Information that my imagination
is then free to organize into another idea. A plan.

A plan that can lead to the creation of my masterpiece.

I don’t need to be the possessor of the specialized information. I just
need to access it. But I do need imagination to organize and use that
information to
create that plan. A plan with the definite purpose of
moving me toward my desire, my vision.

To further the original idea. To make myself available
to opportunity.I’ve heard it said that if you’re looking
for opportunity, it will usually find you first.

Is opportunity a state of mind? A state I create, as a
part of my desire? By moving forward in the pursuit of
that desire, do I invite opportunity?

Is it the marshalling of specialized information and
the building of a plan with a definite purpose that
invites opportunity? Set’s the stage?

For Opportunity to find me, I must be seeking it too.

If I haven’t gathered the specialized information I
need, and I haven’t put that information into a plan
I can exercise intelligently, how can I be seeking
opportunity?

Chapter by chapter Hill is building me a road map,
that I can use to get from a state of confused thinking,
to a position of inviting  opportunity.

Hugh Erving
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Chapter 5 – Specialized Knowledge

“Knowledge is potential” – it will not attract money
or other desires unless I possess the ability to
organize and use the knowledge.  As long as I know
where to access the knowledge, then organize it
into a definite plan of action I am educated.

Mr. Ford created his own Master Mind Group to
supply the knowledge he needed to access.
He created the ideas and others supplied the
specialized knowledge and experience that was
organized into a definite plan of actions that
produced the first 8 cylinder engine.

There are no time or age limits on attaining
knowledge, learning new skills, creating a
Master Mind Group or putting a plan into action.
As long as I have a burning desire I can find
these other ingredients to achieve what ever
my success looks like to me.  If I have self
discipline, commitment, consistent action
and stay open to learning I can achieve
anything.

Thanks for all you do,
With gratitude,
Dianne Brodie
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~~

I’m finding Chapter 5 a lot easier to understand.

Maybe it’s because it describes the way I’ve always
tried to live my life.  I’ve never been afraid to work
more at everything I’ve ever taken on, and I believe
that in any thing I’ve ever put my hand to, I have had
good or reasonable success.

It made total sense to me when Hill described lifting
my head high enough to see opportunity, but I had
never thought about the reverse effect, which is that
when I lifted myself up, opportunity had a chance to
see ME!

It fits well with the idea that we are not just receivers
but transmitters as well, and what better way to
transmit to the Universe than with head held high,
as a tall antenna.  Not the best word picture, I know.
A radiohead with antennae.

I may be missing something, but I love the simplicity
of this chapter.  It reminds me of the simplistic but
truo old Boy’s Home Journal type magazines of my early
childhood in the 50′s, written in the Boy Scout style
of the 30′s or 40′s.

There were enough of those types of mags still around
to tell us that all we had to do was be agreeable and
occasionally useful, and things would work out alright.

Hill now tells me that by doing the right things with
head held high, we attract the attention of those who
can, and want to help us succeed.

It also makes me realize that there is plenty to go
around and we don’t have to compete for success.
The truly successful want to share it with deserving
others, and all we have to do is become deserving.

I already feel deserving.  Maybe I should be more
useful with head held higher.  Maybe this is what
you’ve been talking about as a mentor with a
servant’s heart.

This is getting a bit clearer, but I still don’t know
what I’m learning.  I’ll reread the previous chapters
and work harder at their lessons.

Bob Bassett
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Henrietta
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Some more impressive lessons from some extraordinary people.

I think Chapter 4 is the most important Chapter in
Think and Grow Rich without belief there is no way
forward.

The challenge is to reach the subconscious mind
by thoughts or spoken words which are repeated
with emotion and belief…..The price that must be
paid is the need for persistence and the ability to
concentrate and hold those thoughts and see and
feel what you want to have and keep repeating this
until it becomes second nature. I control what I put
into my subconscious mind – the answer lies with
me.

Napoleon Hill writes”Man may become the master
of himself, and of his environment,,,,, because he
has the POWER TO INFLUENCE HIS OWN SUB
CONSCIOUS MIND, and through it,,,,,,,, gain the
cooperation of Infinite Intelligence.” He goes onto
say that this chapter is the keystone to the arch of
this philosophy. I have read this chapter a number
of times – I think however this is the first time I
have actually understood it.

Regards
Kathy Colgan
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
We all suggest things to ourselves as a child we
suggest we are a great president or astronaut.

As teenagers we suggest we are invisible and
nothing or anyone can hurt us. But today I also
see teens wearing shirts saying born to loose.

What kind of suggestion is that I wonder?

As adults we are programmed to suggest This
job will be ok.  Why do we do this?

If our subconscious mind will do what ever we
suggest why do we suggest mediocrity. I have
read by the age of 16 we have been told that we
cant do something over 200,000 times.

That’s a lot of suggestion!  The conscious mind
will reject some thoughts so they never reach
the subconscious.  For us to have are dreams
we must desire them.

Not only desire it but see and “feel” it as if we
are already there..  We must mix our thoughts
we desire with emotion and feeling, this is why
most people fail.

We must be persistent to succeed…..Why do
children reach goals, because they do not no
the meaning of failure.  THEY PERSIST>

I wonder if this is what Jesus meant when he
said be like the little children?……  We must
concentrate and persist.  When a child wants
something they will derive you crazy about it
because they are obsessed with it.

Does a child have a definite plan to reach their
goal?  NO, but they press on toward it every
hour and day until it is achieved or they have
a new obsession.

WOW! I must be more like a child because
they not only believe they will have it, They
have complete faith it will be theirs…
Thank You Michael & Linda
Your Friend
Tony Casteel
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Auto Suggestion:

Since I have not been doing my lesson plans
or being on many calls I have found that my
old thoughts are back again.

I am not programing my subconscious mind
with my burning desires, not doing my self
talk, negativity is creaping back in…. I have
been trying to please everyone else in my
life so I don’t rock the boat. As you know I
have lots of things happen in the past and I
need to keep it under control.

So I am committing again to doing my lesson
plans, my self-talk, getting e-book downloads
and helping other leaders who want to learn
and be successful.

I am the one in control of what I think, what
I want , what I desire, what my success will
be and who I work with….. Autosuggestion
means I am in control of what I am putting
into my subconscious mind, I am the only
one who knows what I truly desire and want.

No one can stop me from having my desires
or stop me from my self-talk.

Speaking of self talk, it is just not the words
I say, but how I say them and also my emotion
I have when I am saying myself talk. It is truly
amazing when you can actually get your heart
racing, or close my eyes and picture myself
and my team at the success level we all want.

One other think I also do to help with auto-
suggestion is have photos of my team members,
and for people I am  speaking with I will put
their names up so I can see them every single
day and focus on them.

Short but I have started on my journey once again.

Thanks to both of you, for the belief, the friend
ship and the love you both give me.

Your friend for life

Penny
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

As I completed reading chapter 4 on auto-
suggestion, it accrue to me that all these
years I really thought that I had a positive
attitude, I now know what I had was only half
attitude and the rest was wishful thinking.

And you know what Michael after I have started
reading my affirmation over and over I lost count
how many times I have said my affirmation and
it finally clicked.

I don’t care what people think about me it is none
of their business in the kind of business I am in,
because this is my life and I do deserve living
welland I do have abundance in my life, I have God
and good people that care and want the best for me,
Thank You, Thank You, Thank You so much,
May God Bless You and Your Family.

To Your Success,
Secundino Alameda III
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Chapter 4

AUTOSUGGESTION

THE MEDIUM FOR INFLUENCING THE SUBCONSCIOUS
MIND..The Third Step toward Riches

Oh my gosh, I can’t believe it I actually won the
cruise to Bermuda. I remember the day I went to the Philadelphia Flower Show. .I am always one of those
people who fills out the entry blank to win this or
that.

I looked at the picture of the Bermuda Cruise and
all of the wonderful memories of Tom,,,,,,my scuba
dive instructor husband came flooding back.

How I would love to go on that cruise.I could see the
water and the cabin and the wonderful silence of the
underwater world. The beautiful lumineus of the squid
and the colors of the fish. My mind was so focused I
didn’t hear my friend Carol call me to go into the show.

Well, what do you know, a woman from the Travel Agency
giving away 25 cruises called me, her name is Darlene
and she was more excited than I was.If you can imagine
that.

Well I did and now I have the cruise.

So here goes.  Oh my gosh, I just looked out my front
window to the driveway and there it sits..  Yup it is
the Candy Apple Red Mustang that I just won at
convention.

I loved walking over and having Michael hand me the
keys.  I got right in the car.  Wow, it was so cozy.
I of course had to drive it around the block.

Judi Sheehan jumped into the passenger side and we
drove around the block. Oh my gosh, what a time I
had driving it back to New Jersey….  I must have
stopped at every rest area just to admire it.

It drives so smooth, except when I miss the clutch
just a little, been so long since I had my 280 ZX.

What pick-up, oh, oh, highway patrol, whew he had
his red light on and whipped right past me.  What
fun, I could drive this forever, but here we are home
and I am looking out into my driveway.  Yup, there it
is my New Candy Apple Red Mustang.

Anyone want a ride.

Your grateful friend, and by the way Thanks for the
2008 Candy Apple Red Mustang.

Kaye Stephens
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Auto-suggestion is self-suggestion.

It is by this principle that thoughts reaching the
conscious mind can then reach our subconscious
mind.

This is a choice.  We have the absolute control in
regards to the thoughts we want to send to our sub
conscious mind by first holding those thoughts in
our conscious mind.

Although we possess this absolute control, it is
obviously not easy to use all the time.

They key is to use the principle of auto-suggestion
mixed with feelings or emotions.This is the hard part.

Reading the statement of our desires is not hard but
seeing ourselves already in possession of our desires
with emotion is the key and can only be achieved with
practice and persistence.

There is no such thing as something for nothing and
we must pay the price to achieve our desires.

Practice and persistence.

Auto-suggestion can work for anybody.  When failure
is experienced it is the individual that fails NOT the
method.

Try, try, try, until you succeed.

Success in using auto-suggestion depends on our ability
to concentrate on our desires until they become a burning
obsession.

We are masters of our own destiny because we have the
power to influence our subconscious mind.

Regards,
Michel Laliberte
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Hello Michael,

I have absolute control over the material, thoughts,
ideas, beliefs, that reach my subconscious mind. So
says Hill. So it must be as far as I’m concerned.

The fact that I have absolute control over mt thoughts
reaching my subconscious mind,,,, does not mean that I
have exercised that control. Any control. So says Hill.

Don’t I know it.

Here lies the recurring frustrations of my life, along
with all the voices of my ghosts, and any power they may
have been allowed to exercise. Allowed by me.

The preceding chapters have been a building of my self
talk, auto suggestion. Identifying my desire(s), naming
them, seeing them, untiI can feel them.

Desires I would not have previously dared to reach for.

Reaching for them by building Belief, and Faith, through
my own self talk. Self talking my way through this, into
it, becoming it, is such a foreign concept to my mind,
alien, but it feels so essential. So different from what
I have believed.

I don’t know how to explain a craving for something I
have never tasted. But that’s what I have. It’s funny
how it works. At first it was just words, but I found
myself altering them, to something I liked better,
something that seemed to ring a bell.

Even if my self talk was not that passionate at first,
passion for what I am saying is building, as I edit
and rewrite, and get specific. The bell rings louder.

A war wages in me. A battle between the me I feel
that I want to be, and the me I drift back to, if
I allow my mind to drift.

I can’t lose this war. I’ve been conceding ground my
whole life, without realizing it…. If I lost this
growing faith in myself, belief in myself, and daring
to reach for what I desire, then I could lose my
growing faith and belief in that universe, higher
power, the ether.

What a shame that would be….. If I can’t be who I
dream of being, what is my purpose here?

Hill asks us; What price is too large to pay to gain
this? Talking to myself seems like a ridiculously
cheap price to pay. Self talk is free. All I have to
do is stick with it and re-program myself.

I have a long way to go to master this, and really
get from it, all I truly want….I can tell, because,
when I read this out loud to myself, part of me still
cringes at thinking it, writing it down, and then….

God Forbid, speaking it.

This is my old programming trying to kick in, telling
me to get real, this sounds nuts. That programming
has kept me running into the same brick wall, over
and over again, my whole life. How sane is that?

At these moments, I have to meet my past programming
with my self talk. But I know that with each expression
of my self talk, I’m replacing the old programming with
my new programming a little more each time I say it.

I think other people can hear it? Old programming
says things like “What do you mean you get your
plans from the ether?”

It’s a scrap. A real battle in here. I knock that
voice down with my self talk. I’ll win this scrap.
With each head on, I am gaining back ground I
previously surrendered.

Left to outside programming, others programming,
my mind is wide open to every influence, except
mine, and not working toward my desires.

Hill says, if your not so good at self talk, just
because you’re a beginner, just keep practicing.
That’s what Michael says. That’s what Patti says.

I wonder how many people I couldn’t hear say that
to me, until I hit that familiar wall again?

Like a drunk stumbling past the building where ‘
the AA meeting is, and never noticing it. Like not
noticing the step by step how to instructions with
each chapter in this book, the other times I passed
by.

ORDERS, given to my mind, by me, in the SPIRIT
of Faith, my faith, in me, and in the universe,
in Hill,in Michael, ORDERS based in my BELIEF
that this works, is all underpinned by my self
talk.

Without it, I’ll build another house of cards,
and it will come down on me again.

I cannot trust to reason. Reason thinks I’m nuts
and keeps running me into the same brick wall.
At this wall, faith, belief, and desire fade away.

I should not wonder how I missed this chapter
before. Understanding it, and using it, was not
serving my old programming.

Carry out these instructions as though you
were a small child – Hill

Hugh Erving
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

I hope you enjoyed those as much as I did.

Henrietta
The Mentoring Mom

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I think Chapter 4 is the most important Chapter in                                 
Think and Grow Rich without belief there is no way
forward.

The challenge is to reach the subconscious mind
by thoughts or spoken words which are repeated
with emotion and belief…..The price that must be
paid is the need for persistence and the ability to
concentrate and hold those thoughts and see and
feel what you want to have and keep repeating this
until it becomes second nature. I control what I put
into my subconscious mind – the answer lies with
me.

Napoleon Hill writes”Man may become the master
of himself, and of his environment,,,,, because he
has the POWER TO INFLUENCE HIS OWN SUB
CONSCIOUS MIND, and through it,,,,,,,, gain the
cooperation of Infinite Intelligence.” He goes onto
say that this chapter is the keystone to the arch of
this philosophy. I have read this chapter a number
of times – I think however this is the first time I
have actually understood it.

Regards
Kathy Colgan
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
We all suggest things to ourselves as a child we
suggest we are a great president or astronaut.

As teenagers we suggest we are invisible and
nothing or anyone can hurt us. But today I also
see teens wearing shirts saying born to loose.

What kind of suggestion is that I wonder?


As adults we are programmed to suggest This
job will be ok.  Why do we do this?

If our subconscious mind will do what ever we
suggest why do we suggest mediocrity. I have
read by the age of 16 we have been told that we
cant do something over 200,000 times.

That’s a lot of suggestion!  The conscious mind
will reject some thoughts so they never reach
the subconscious.  For us to have are dreams
we must desire them.

Not only desire it but see and “feel” it as if we
are already there..  We must mix our thoughts
we desire with emotion and feeling, this is why
most people fail.

We must be persistent to succeed…..Why do
children reach goals, because they do not no
the meaning of failure.  THEY PERSIST>

I wonder if this is what Jesus meant when he
said be like the little children?……  We must
concentrate and persist.  When a child wants
something they will derive you crazy about it
because they are obsessed with it.

Does a child have a definite plan to reach their
goal?  NO, but they press on toward it every
hour and day until it is achieved or they have
a new obsession.

WOW! I must be more like a child because
they not only believe they will have it, They
have complete faith it will be theirs…
Thank You Michael & Linda
Your Friend
Tony Casteel
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Auto Suggestion:

Since I have not been doing my lesson plans
or being on many calls I have found that my
old thoughts are back again.

I am not programing my subconscious mind
with my burning desires, not doing my self
talk, negativity is creaping back in…. I have
been trying to please everyone else in my
life so I don’t rock the boat. As you know I
have lots of things happen in the past and I

need to keep it under control.

So I am committing again to doing my lesson
plans, my self-talk, getting e-book downloads
and helping other leaders who want to learn
and be successful.

I am the one in control of what I think, what
I want , what I desire, what my success will
be and who I work with….. Autosuggestion
means I am in control of what I am putting
into my subconscious mind, I am the only
one who knows what I truly desire and want.

No one can stop me from having my desires
or stop me from my self-talk.

Speaking of self talk, it is just not the words
I say, but how I say them and also my emotion
I have when I am saying myself talk. It is truly
amazing when you can actually get your heart
racing, or close my eyes and picture myself
and my team at the success level we all want.

One other think I also do to help with auto-
suggestion is have photos of my team members,
and for people I am  speaking with I will put
their names up so I can see them every single
day and focus on them.

Short but I have started on my journey once again.

Thanks to both of you, for the belief, the friend
ship and the love you both give me.

Your friend for life

Penny
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

As I completed reading chapter 4 on auto-
suggestion, it accrue to me that all these
years I really thought that I had a positive
attitude, I now know what I had was only half
attitude and the rest was wishful thinking.

And you know what Michael after I have started
reading my affirmation over and over I lost count
how many times I have said my affirmation and
it finally clicked.

I don’t care what people think about me it is none
of their business in the kind of business I am in,
because this is my life and I do deserve living

welland I do have abundance in my life, I have God
and good people that care and want the best for me,
Thank You, Thank You, Thank You so much,
May God Bless You and Your Family.

To Your Success,
Secundino Alameda III
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Chapter 4

AUTOSUGGESTION

THE MEDIUM FOR INFLUENCING THE SUBCONSCIOUS
MIND..The Third Step toward Riches

Oh my gosh, I can’t believe it I actually won the
cruise to Bermuda. I remember the day I went to the Philadelphia Flower Show. .I am always one of those
people who fills out the entry blank to win this or
that.

I looked at the picture of the Bermuda Cruise and
all of the wonderful memories of Tom,,,,,,my scuba
dive instructor husband came flooding back.

How I would love to go on that cruise.I could see the
water and the cabin and the wonderful silence of the
underwater world. The beautiful lumineus of the squid
and the colors of the fish. My mind was so focused I
didn’t hear my friend Carol call me to go into the show.

Well, what do you know, a woman from the Travel Agency
giving away 25 cruises called me, her name is Darlene
and she was more excited than I was.If you can imagine
that.

Well I did and now I have the cruise.

So here goes.  Oh my gosh, I just looked out my front
window to the driveway and there it sits..  Yup it is
the Candy Apple Red Mustang that I just won at
convention.

I loved walking over and having Michael hand me the
keys.  I got right in the car.  Wow, it was so cozy.
I of course had to drive it around the block.

Judi Sheehan jumped into the passenger side and we
drove around the block. Oh my gosh, what a time I
had driving it back to New Jersey….  I must have
stopped at every rest area just to admire it.

It drives so smooth, except when I miss the clutch

just a little, been so long since I had my 280 ZX.

What pick-up, oh, oh, highway patrol, whew he had
his red light on and whipped right past me.  What
fun, I could drive this forever, but here we are home
and I am looking out into my driveway.  Yup, there it
is my New Candy Apple Red Mustang.

Anyone want a ride.

Your grateful friend, and by the way Thanks for the
2008 Candy Apple Red Mustang.

Kaye Stephens
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Auto-suggestion is self-suggestion.

It is by this principle that thoughts reaching the
conscious mind can then reach our subconscious
mind.

This is a choice.  We have the absolute control in
regards to the thoughts we want to send to our sub
conscious mind by first holding those thoughts in
our conscious mind.

Although we possess this absolute control, it is
obviously not easy to use all the time.

They key is to use the principle of auto-suggestion
mixed with feelings or emotions.This is the hard part.

Reading the statement of our desires is not hard but
seeing ourselves already in possession of our desires
with emotion is the key and can only be achieved with
practice and persistence.

There is no such thing as something for nothing and
we must pay the price to achieve our desires.

Practice and persistence.

Auto-suggestion can work for anybody.  When failure
is experienced it is the individual that fails NOT the
method.

Try, try, try, until you succeed.

Success in using auto-suggestion depends on our ability
to concentrate on our desires until they become a burning
obsession.

We are masters of our own destiny because we have the
power to influence our subconscious mind.

Regards,
Michel Laliberte
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Hello Michael,

I have absolute control over the material, thoughts,
ideas, beliefs, that reach my subconscious mind. So
says Hill. So it must be as far as I’m concerned.

The fact that I have absolute control over mt thoughts
reaching my subconscious mind,,,, does not mean that I
have exercised that control. Any control. So says Hill.

Don’t I know it.

Here lies the recurring frustrations of my life, along
with all the voices of my ghosts, and any power they may
have been allowed to exercise. Allowed by me.

The preceding chapters have been a building of my self
talk, auto suggestion. Identifying my desire(s), naming
them, seeing them, untiI can feel them.

Desires I would not have previously dared to reach for.

Reaching for them by building Belief, and Faith, through
my own self talk. Self talking my way through this, into
it, becoming it, is such a foreign concept to my mind,
alien, but it feels so essential. So different from what
I have believed.

I don’t know how to explain a craving for something I
have never tasted. But that’s what I have. It’s funny
how it works. At first it was just words, but I found
myself altering them, to something I liked better,
something that seemed to ring a bell.

Even if my self talk was not that passionate at first,
passion for what I am saying is building, as I edit
and rewrite, and get specific. The bell rings louder.

A war wages in me. A battle between the me I feel
that I want to be, and the me I drift back to, if
I allow my mind to drift.

I can’t lose this war. I’ve been conceding ground my
whole life, without realizing it…. If I lost this
growing faith in myself, belief in myself, and daring
to reach for what I desire, then I could lose my
growing faith and belief in that universe, higher

power, the ether.

What a shame that would be….. If I can’t be who I
dream of being, what is my purpose here?

Hill asks us; What price is too large to pay to gain
this? Talking to myself seems like a ridiculously
cheap price to pay. Self talk is free. All I have to
do is stick with it and re-program myself.

I have a long way to go to master this, and really
get from it, all I truly want….I can tell, because,
when I read this out loud to myself, part of me still
cringes at thinking it, writing it down, and then….

God Forbid, speaking it.

This is my old programming trying to kick in, telling
me to get real, this sounds nuts. That programming
has kept me running into the same brick wall, over
and over again, my whole life. How sane is that?

At these moments, I have to meet my past programming
with my self talk. But I know that with each expression
of my self talk, I’m replacing the old programming with
my new programming a little more each time I say it.

I think other people can hear it? Old programming
says things like “What do you mean you get your
plans from the ether?”

It’s a scrap. A real battle in here. I knock that
voice down with my self talk. I’ll win this scrap.
With each head on, I am gaining back ground I
previously surrendered.

Left to outside programming, others programming,
my mind is wide open to every influence, except
mine, and not working toward my desires.

Hill says, if your not so good at self talk, just
because you’re a beginner, just keep practicing.
That’s what Michael says. That’s what Patti says.

I wonder how many people I couldn’t hear say that
to me, until I hit that familiar wall again?

Like a drunk stumbling past the building where ‘
the AA meeting is, and never noticing it. Like not

noticing the step by step how to instructions with
each chapter in this book, the other times I passed
by.

ORDERS, given to my mind, by me, in the SPIRIT
of Faith, my faith, in me, and in the universe,
in Hill,in Michael, ORDERS based in my BELIEF
that this works, is all underpinned by my self
talk.

Without it, I’ll build another house of cards,
and it will come down on me again.

I cannot trust to reason. Reason thinks I’m nuts
and keeps running me into the same brick wall.
At this wall, faith, belief, and desire fade away.

I should not wonder how I missed this chapter
before. Understanding it, and using it, was not
serving my old programming.

Carry out these instructions as though you
were a small child – Hill

Hugh Erving
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Success is Born Out of Personal Growth and Excellence

I will believe in you until you believe in yourself.

Henrietta
TheMentoringMom
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Well, here goes




This was a very good
chapter and not for the reasons I thought.  I have been a Christian, a man of faith, and

and I thought i knew why.  I never realized how much


our emotions played into building our faith and how it


brings about the changes that we desire for.




The book stated that the three strongest emotions,faith,


love and sex, when blended have the effect of”coloring”


thought in such a way by reaching the sub-conscience


mind changing it into it’s spiritual equivalent.




At first I was thinking this was a mystic gobbledeegoop,


but the more I read I realized that what he scriptures


says is true.  That through God we are wonderfully and fearfully made.  All of that works for a reason.




The scriptures tell us to ask, and we will receive.


Seek and we will find and doors will be open for us.




Isn’t it unique that as we do this we are allowing


our mind to take this and make it so. God says that


if we have the faith of a mustard seed, we can move


mountains.




Something that really caught my attention was the


words of the criminologist.  ”When men first come


into contact with crime, they abhor it.  If they


remain in contact with crime for a time, they become


accustomed to it, and endure it.




If they remain in contact with it long enough, they


finally embrace it, and become influenced by it.”


‘That works with everything we do in life.  That can


work with bad things we do and also with good things


that we do.




I have have heard it said that it takes 21 days to


build a habit. Well..that is how it is built. A little


at a time unto we are hooked.  That can be hooked on


crime, drugs, sex or hooked on prayer, excersizing,


eating right, and even making phone calls.




I honestly think, I know that people can talk them


selves into bad heath.  That they DOOM themselves.


I have a friend that has done just that.  she is a


wonderful woman, but with health problems galore.




But when you hear her talk.you know why she has them,


She has spoken those very thing into existance.




I could write another
chapter here, but these were

some of my “AH HA” thoughts in this
chapter.  The

chapter on desire was incredible, but this chapter

struck a lot closer to home.




I will make it to the top.  I will bring as many


people as I can with me.




Rick Spurr


~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~




Chapter 3: Faith



Visualization of, and Belief in Attainment of Desire




The three emotions mentioned in this
chapter are

faith, love and sex. Faith and love are spiritual


while sex is physical. While they have their place in


this
chapter, the two that have played a significance

role in my life are faith and love.




Faith in my case is setting to be in a positive state


of mind whether I seek it myself or with a higher


spiritual power. Love is being able to tell yourself


how much you love yourself then telling others how much


you love them.




Without those emotions, one would never know how Much


abundance they would receive unless they Practice using


those emotions.




A quick example comes from the book “How to Sell


Anything to Anybody” by Joe Girard who is known as


the”World’s Greatest Salesman”. In one
chapter, he

uses faith which he calls his want.




When he lost his small business, he got a job selling


cars. He also developed his want which was a bag of


groceries to feed his family. When he selling a customer


a car, he used a word picture which was that customer


becoming a bag of groceries for him and his family.




By selling that customer a car he was able to get that


bag of groceries. To me, faith is being able to believe


that I have what it is I have set out to do in my


personal and business life.




My being in network marketing, I have the faith and


have already accomplished a better life for myself and


like minded people who want the same.




Love which I learned from “Think And Grow Rich”,


“Mentoring For Free”, and the “30 Day Mental Cleanse”


involves loving myself before I’m able to love others.




By using self-talk telling myself that I love myself,


then I am able to love others receiving love in return


after giving it. By practicing both emotions on a


daily basis, I can see the positive results it has


made on my personal and business life. To those who


have practiced and used those emotions on a daily


basis would know what I’m talking and can vouch for


what I am saying.




Thank you for planting the seeds in my life which


before I met you Michael, I never would have thought


it was possible to accomplish what it is that I want.




I don’t have to feel guilty anymore about wanting a


rich and full life that I only set out to accomplish


as long as I can help others do the same if they want


it bad enough. Again, thank you for that as I will


keep doing what needs to done in being the best


person I can be.




Cordially,


Paul Rosen


~~~~~~~~~~~~~


Faith.




How appropriate that I would begin my 30-Day Mental


Cleanse with this lesson.  Faith is a subject that’s


been on my mind a lot lately.  And, God has been good


to me in that He has been showing me how to have


greater faith.  This lesson is right on time for me.




I can see that it is a matter of “practice” that is


needed to change my thinking; to keep the right


thoughts, words, and visualization along with them


to bring them to life.




In Proverbs 18:20, it says “A man’s self shall be


filled with the fruit of his mouth (what he speaks,


even thinks); and with the consequence of his words


he must be satisfied [whether good or evil].Clearly,


our thoughts and words affect ourselves and others.




I must remember that faith is POWERFUL.  There are illustrations in the Bible where Jesus has responded


to individuals by healing them and telling them that


their FAITH has healed them.




He gave them their burning desire because they had


faith.  He also said that if we just had the tiniest


amount of faith we could move a mountain and that


nothing would be impossible for us (Matthew 17:20).




Jeani Morrison


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FAITH




Napoleon Hill makes the following statements about


FAITH…


*  Faith is the Head Chemist of the mind, so obviously


I need it.


*  Faith is a state of mind which may be induced,


created… by affirmation or repeated instructions to


the subconscious mind, through the principle of auto


suggestion.


*  Faith is a state of mind I may develop at will.


*  Repetition of affirmation of orders to my sub


conscious mind  is the only known method of VOLUNTARY development of the  emotion of faith.


*  Any impulse of thought which is repeatedly passed


on to the subconscious mind is, finally, accepted and


acted upon by the subconscious mind, which proceeds to translate that impulse into its physical equivalent by


the most practical procedure available.


*  All thoughts which have been emotionalized (given


feeling) and mixed with faith begin immediately to


translate themselves into their physical equivalent or counterpart.


*  My belief, or faith, is the element which determines


the action of my subconscious mind.


*  It is essential for me to encourage the positive


emotions as dominating forces of my mind, and discourage


and eliminate negative emotions.


*  A mind dominated by positive emotions becomes a


favorable abode for the state of mind known as faith.


A mind so dominated may, AT WILL, give the subconscious


mind instructions, which it  will accept and act upon immediately.




OK…I could go on and on–in fact, my favorite page


in this
chapter is just ahead…BUT GUESS WHAT?  This

is NOT some phenomenon we’ve never experienced before.




We ALL know how to do this already.  We’ve been doing


it since the day we were born.




We think about what we want or don’t want (fear) and


what we DECIDE we really, really desire, or what we


really, really fear, and… WALLA…our life becomes


blessed or doomed with whatever we desired or feared–


or what we thought about and believed and sprinkled


some emotion on day after day!




NOW we KNOW it WORKS!  All we really need to do is


take one more step and use our self-talk like its


an inhaler that we need for our “asthma” and breathe


deeply of that pre-written self-talk as many times


per day as we need to breathe–you know, like Michael


always says…”You need it MORE than you need oxygen”.




If I am too preoccupied or too lazy to take time to


bathe and brush my teeth, would the people around me


continue to put up with me day after day without


squacking about it?  I doubt it!




Well, there’s also no excuse good enough for me to be


too busy or too lazy to keep putting off my self-talk.


I need it more than I need oxygen IF I desire to create


my dreams.




And if I’m inhaling, I am looking for oxygen to inhale


rather than the air someone else exhaled in my face…


and I don’t care if it’s my soul mate’s or my newborn


infant’s carbon dioxide… I desire oxygen… so I move


my head a little bit and breathe in what I desire rather


than what someone else just breathed out into my face!




Self-talk is even easier, but I have to do it if I


desire the “oxygen” of my own desires versus the left


over, spewed-upon-me “carbon dioxide” of fear and


negativity from myself or others.




Would I walk around with my hands cupped over my mouth


and nose trying to smell my bad breath all day?




Probably not!




Then, stop allowing used up oxygen into my head in all


the other ways it sneaks in…by doing my pre-determined


self-talk over and over and over again–it will be like


wearing an oxygen mask 24-7 and I won’t even have to


carry the tank!




So…we wrote it in
Chapter 2..the self-talk is written. Michael has shared his with us…start with that if you

don’t have your own yet.  You’ll only have to say it 2


or
3 times to begin making changes in it so that it

feels more like yours.




And remember…we need it more than we need the shower


and the toothbrush…MORE THAN OXYGEN!  So, check your


self today!




Ask yourself:  ”How much fresh air (MY self-talk) have


I inhaled today?”  Make sure it’s  ENOUGH because if I


have not, my dreams won’t be coming true, and…




IT’S NOBODY’S FAULT BUT MY OWN.




Friends For Life,


Patti Blevins


~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~




Faith.




How appropriate that I would begin my 30-Day Mental


Cleanse with this lesson.  Faith is a subject that’s


been on my mind a lot lately.  And, God has been good


to me in that He has been showing me how to have


greater faith. This lesson is right on time for me.




I can see that it is a matter of “practice” that is


needed to change my thinking; to keep the right


thoughts, words, and visualization along with them


to bring them to life.




In Proverbs 18:20, it says “A man’s self shall be


filled with the fruit of his mouth (what he speaks,


even thinks); and with the consequence of his words


he must be satisfied [whether good or evil].”




Clearly, our thoughts and words affect ourselves


and others.




I must remember that faith is POWERFUL. There are


illustrations in the Bible where Jesus has re-


sponded to individuals by healing them and telling


them that their FAITH has healed them.




He gave them their burning desire because they had


faith.  He also said that if we just had the tiniest


amount of faith we could move a mountain and that


nothing would be impossible for us (Matthew 17:20).




Jeani Morrison


~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~




Chapter 3



Hill says:


“Faith, the head chemist of the mind.When faith blends


with the vibration of thought, the subconscious mind


picks up the vibration, translates it into its


spiritual equivalent and transmits it to Infinite


Intelligence, as in the case of “Prayer”.”




So really this can be translated to what we think is


what we get.  In other words, our Dominant thoughts


are a form of prayer.  If our dominant thoughts are


those of negative experiences, negative feelings,


negative beliefs, then we put these out in a form


of faith.




These feelings are our thoughts which blend with


our belief system.  And if our belief system is of


negative memories and that we deserve bad things and


don’t deserve good, then this becomes a form of Prayer,


a faith blended with the vibrations of thoughts which


of course instantly reach the subconscious mind where


they are changed into their spiritual equivalent and


induce a response from Infinite Intelligence.




So…I guess this is why we get more of the same.




Why where we are is EXACTLY where we want to be.


EXACTLY the physical reality we have manifested


in our life.  Hard to fathom, hard to ingest, but


true.  This is the cold, hard reality.  We have


manifested this on our self.




The good news is, we can out manifest it too.  I


have just learned of a skill for this.  And that s


kill is write my own movie of my life as if it were


now.




Not written as a goal into the future, but right now.


My movie, my life, my reality!




Once and for all!  My New Amazing Life Reality…


here I come!




Cynthia Breed


~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

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Lesson learned from Chapter 2  April 23/08

Defeat in my life came as early as second grade
when I was in Catholic school, by the nuns who
placed me back into first grade.

This feeling of failure seems to have plagued me
throughout my schooling and subsequent life until,
recently these past few years.

Low self-esteem seems to be the thread that I must
cut in order for me to proceed, besides, all those
who SUCCEED in life get off to a “bad” start after
all and pass through many heartbreaking struggles
before they “arrive”.

I am not used to writing at length, yet know that
this is where I must stand and put my thoughts into
action despite many temporary defeats before this
point. “I will not quit”

My state of mind must now be belief, not just mere
hoping and wishing. If there is one thing I”get” from
this chapter, it is this: these great pioneers left us
footprints to follow, which start in the six steps.

These require no “hard labor” and cannot be left to
chance, but do require immagination and persistence.

Gratefully,
John Fischer
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Chapter 2: Desire

Napoleon Hill says that there is nothing–right or
wrong–which belief, plus burning desire, cannot
make real.

These qualities (belief & burning desire) are free
to everyone. I believe in the power of desire backed
by faith. But…How can I harness and use the power
of desire?

Through some strange and powerful principle of
“mental chemistry” which Nature has never divulged,
She wraps up in the impulse of strong desire
“that something” which recognizes no such word as
“impossible” and accepts no such reality as failure.

There are no limitations to the mind except those I
acknowledge.

I am never defeated until defeat has been accepted
by me as a reality.

There is a difference between wishing for a thing and
being ready to receive it.  I am not ready for a thing
until I believe I can acquire it.Do I believe..really
believe…that I can acquire what I truly desire?

The state of mind must be belief, not mere hope or
wish.  Open-mindedness is essential for belief.
Closed minds do not inspire faith, courage, or
belief.

Remember–no more effort is required to aim high in
life, to demand abundance and prosperity, than is
required to accept mediocrity, misery, and poverty.

So…I AM focusing my burning desires on abundance
and prosperity and I AM ready to receive it.

My daily self-talk affirms and continues to build
my “mental chemistry” that recognizes no such word
as “impossible” and accepts no such reality as
failure.I know I need it as much as I need oxygen…
maybe more!

Thank you,
Patti Blevins
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
What is desire? When looking up the definition the
one part that really caught my attention was number
6 sexual appetite or a sexual urge. That is a desire
that most people can probably understand.

It is a very strong desire which drives people to do
things they might not otherwise do. If I can just take
that kind of desire and apply it to my business then I
will have no problem attaining what I truly desire to
get from my business.

I must do whatever it takes to move my business to the
next level.

The other strong desire that I can think of is the
desire to be wanted and loved. When taking care of
foster kids I found that the desire for attention
was so great that they would do anything to get it.

Most of them found that the only way to get this
attention was to misbehave and then they would get
punished but at least it was attention.

So they were willing to take the abuse if they got
some attention. I’ll never forget the day one little
girl about 4 or 5 asked us why we didn’t love her.

We told her that we did but she said we didn’t because
we didn’t hit her. She was willing to do whatever it
took to get attention, any kind of attention.

When I
have that kind of desire in my business it will grow as
I help others with the same desire.

Thanks Michael and Linda
Jerry Posey
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Well here goes.

All through history great leaders obviously were
dreamers and had their burning desire and stuck
with that burning desire and had the vision to
see they could achieve it.

I believe I am a dreamer and have been for years
but I did not know how to turn those dreams
into a burning desire and go after them.  So, I
now must figure out what dream I have that I want
to turn into a burning desire and give this process
a chance.

Tolerance and an open mind are practical necessities
of a dreamer.  Those afraid to see great riches in
their possession are doomed.  I am not doomed as I
am a tolerant person and I have an open mind.

So, I have figured out that burning desire and I
know this is right in the universe for me.  It is
so right that I have the burning desire.  Now I
must open my mind and visualize seeing myself
receive that desire.

This is now a definite burning desire now in my mind.

Now I have to figure out what I will give in return.
What I have to give does not measure up to how big
my burning desire is but it does not matter it is
the fact I am willing to give.

Now I have begun to work to prepare what I will give
and I have a date set for when this money is to come
to me.

By setting everything so clearly in my mind and actions,
I will not be procrastinating or doubting or letting go
of what I have set out.

Now it is time to write out my burning desire. By doing
this now it will affect every phase of my life.

I want to be debt free and I want a certain amount of
money to come to me by April 30, 2008.

In return I will make 12 cards that are “I Care” cards
and send them to people who are needing that caring at
my own expense.  I  will pay $15 in tithing and I will
work hard in this Home Network Business.

Now I see in my mind receiving the money, going to the
bank and putting the money in the bank, going home and
going on line and paying off bills, calling the mortgage company and paying off the mortgage.

Calling the dentist and making my appointments.Living
in freedom to do what I want to do when I want to do something.  Being able to give when it is needed.
Freedom.

Betty Williams
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Desire   The starting point of all achievement, The
first step towards riches

Wishing or hoping for something will not bring it about,
only a focused burning desire will bring it about.  Like
a laser the more focused and concentrated the desire the
faster the desired results will appear.

The more heated the desire the stronger the energy,
the stronger the energy the stronger the attraction
for like energy.

Part of this desire is visualizing the desired results,
not just the material objects of your dreams.Visualize
yourself in your dreams, feel the dream, make it as
realistic as you can.

Envision yourself driving the car of your dreams,
walking through the house of your dreams.  Feel
yourself in the dream living the dream.

Draw up your plan for attaining your desire, then
remove all doubts from your mind that you will
achieve your desire and put your plan in action.

After reading this chapter, I question just how
much I’ve really desired the things I want.  I
know I have not been committed strongly enough
in the past, I’ve let go of my dreams too easily,
listening to the skeptics and leaving my dreams
behind.

I’ve listened to the critics.  That will be one
of my greatest challenges.  I have great respect
for my father, his approval of me and my
accomplishments have always been important to me.

But I also have come to realize that many of his
ideas are out dated and if I really sit back and
evaluate things objectively he has become very
opinionated.

To him the only way to earn a living is hard manual
labor, those days are gone, times have changed. Now
I need to develop the filters, to screen out his
outdated thinking.

Hold on the basic values he has taught me like
honesty and integrity, but ignore the outdated
viewpoints that he seems to state more strongly
as he ages.

I can not ignore him, the time I have left with him
is growing short, so I need to develop those filters.

This is something very hard for me to put into words
on paper, I hope I have been able to put it down in a
way that will make some sence to you and you can see
where I am coming from.

I am not trying to place blame, just trying to
determine what has been making me give up my dreams
so easily and figure out how to deal with it.

John Holloway
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

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Chapter 1

Think And Grow Rich




Hello Team




Napoleon States


Truly, “thoughts are things,” and powerful things at


that, when they are mixed with definiteness of purpose, persistence, and a BURNING DESIRE for their translation


into riches, or other material objects.




When taking a look over the past few months of my life


I can very clearly see the pattern of the translation


of thoughts into material form. I have reached a point


in my life where I want to own my life and am willing


to do whatever it takes to get there.




In this decision I have come to see many things I must


change in my day to day life in order to reach my


desires. I have lived in a poverty consciousness for


so long that nearly everything in my life has followed


the pattern of negative, poverty consciousness which


in translation has left me with a negative poverty


lifestyle.




Since I have joined Mentoring For Free and have began


to use critical judgment I now look at the outcome I


desire instead of the outcome which I fear, each of


these thought patterns carry with them a strong


emotion which direct me to the outcome I live with.




In this process of retraining my mind to think of the


positive outcome I desire instead of the negative out


come I fear I sometimes find I have to look at things


several times before I see I am looking at things all


wrong.




I have confronted some things in my life recently


which have needed to be changed for some time now.




Some of these things are so serious that they could


have at any time changed or even ended my life as I


know it forever. When I first began to analyze the


situation and how I should change it I only came up


with
one answer, “I would have to leave everything

I truly love and begin to build a life without them”.




With this thought in mind I began to see everything


slipping away.




After about the millionth time I really thought things


through I decided to think about what I truly desire


in the outcome instead of what everyone else would


think of me if I stayed with it and tried to change


it.




As I started to think it I started to feel the emotion


which it carried with it. I have since been staying


consistent in thinking of my desire instead of my


fears and I have truly seen everything begin to fall


into place and start changing to follow the pattern


my thoughts have set forth to translate into


material form.




I have made changes in my life and in my family’s


lives which no
one would have thought possible and

I did it in a very short amount of time by thinking


myself into the situation I desire to be in.




I will be staying plugged into the mental cleanse


calls and turning in each lesson this time through.




I have made the conscious decision that I will not


miss a lesson even if I don’t feel as if I have


something as good to say as the rest of the Team


and as I follow with this great Team I will grow


stronger with each
chapter.



It is a huge process to change 32 years of what I


was taught to think and live, but with persistence


I can change anything I desire all by changing my


thoughts.




Thanks To Everyone


Larry Unruh


~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~


Thoughts are Things -




Hills states that when opportunity comes it has a


sly habit of slipping in by the back door and it


is often disguised in the form of misfortune or


temporary defeat.




This past Friday morning I was giving the opportunity


to put into action what I have been learning.  I must


confession, I did not start out using my thoughts in


a positive  direction.




I am a Flight Attendant and was on call this weekend


(Fri. Sat. Sun). My “on call” duty time starts at mid


night Friday morning.  I live in Kentucky and work in


New York City. So, I have to commute to work.




I had just arrived at my apartment in New York on


Thursday night around 10:30 PM. I was just getting


settled to sleep the night and the phone rang. It


was Scheduling calling me to tell me that I had a


trip.




I had to be at Kennedy airport by 2:00 AM to work a


flight to Paris, France. At that moment it time I was


looking at this as a misfortune.




I had not had any sleep, I had just gotten there, taken


off all my make-up, and was ready for bed and I was not


on duty yet. WHY ME!  I did some mental ranting and


raving, obviously not practicing the mental cleanse.


Then proceeded to get ready to go back to the airport.




When I arrived in the area where we brief before the


flight, all of use where on the same page. Ranting and


raving about being the ones “picked” to work this when


we where not on duty.




When had not sleep, we had been up since early morning,


etc, etc,….Then
one of the flight attendants stopped

us all in our tracks.  She said we needed to be looking


at this from a different point of view.




What if you had received a call in the middle of the


night, been told you had won a trip to Paris, France.




Your hotel was paid for, you where going to get feed


all the way over and all the way back. You had 2 hours


to be at the airport and you would be in Paris for 15 -


17 hours.




Your hotel was walking distance to the Eiffel Tower


and you had time to go there and have night out in


Paris.




How would you be feeling then? Happy, thrilled beyond


belief. You could not get to the airport fast enough.




Right then it hit me, I had a wonderful opportunity.


I changed my attitude instantly. I also learned that


I have a great deal of work to do on my thoughts.




The trip gave me the opportunity to share a product


that helped keep every crew member going for the long


haul.




We did not leave New York until 3:30 in the morning and


landed in Paris at 4:30 PM their time. We had all been


up for over 24 hours. I also had the opportunity to


make some marketing videos in front of the Eiffel Tower,


create new friends and potential customers.




Thanks
Michael and Linda for giving me the opportunity

to learn and grow.




Your friend,


Debi Talbert


~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~


I read
chapter one last night before going to bed.This afternoon I found myself thinking about this man that

I saw the other day and felt the need to write it down


on paper.




It is amazing to me how for some reason everything is


so clear in my head.  In the past I always had such a


hard time putting my thoughts on paper.




It is almost as if it isn’t coming from me but from


within me. Anyway’s here is a story about a man. I


bet he’s a red.




He walked in the door a “handsome man” in his grey


business suit. His cell phone in his ear.  There was


a cheerful greeting from the person behind the counter


“Good Morning!”. The greeting was ignored.  But I’m


sure this guy must be really important if he is


conducting business while shopping.




I observed him from a distance, something about him


peeked my curiosity. …… As he was lost in his


conversation, he made irritated faces as he moved


around the people in the room.




Couldn’t they see that he was an important business


man?! I mean he is obviously on the phone, step out


of his way.  After he made his selection and moved


to the front counter he sat his items down and threw


his credit card on the counter never looking at the


cashier and never stopped talking to his client.




 The cashier smiled and asked him if he found every


thing okay and the man turned his back to her as if


she wasn’t there.  After she handed him receipt and


wished him a good day he made what sounded like a moan.




I’m not sure but I think it was a thank you.  He left


the store and started walking accross the street and


almost walked right in front of a car, but the car


stopped as he yelled at the driver.




I found myself wanting to run after him and say


“Mister! You forgot something.  You forgot there is


a beautiful life going on and you are missing it.”




I’m sad for him. He just doesn’t get it.  His life


is passing him by.




Thank you God for letting me observe this man and


making me realize how much I have grown and how blessed


I am.  We are what we think about.




I know the kind of thinking this man does.  That used


to be me.




A few months ago I made a decision to go back to work.


It hurt my ego because I thought that I would never


have to go back to work but I knew it was something


that I had to do.




I choose to believe that my going back to work is


simply a temporary set back and an opportunity to


grow as a person.




This man missed out on a great opportunity to meet


a terrific person, for I was the cashier behind the


counter.




Your friend for life,


Wendy Krick


~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~


Chapter 1



I am so glad and thankful to be here. To start al


over from
chapter one. I followed faithfully from

chapter 11  to the end. Now I am ready to start the

learning process on becoming FREE of mental anguish


and concentrating on success instead of failure.




For years my believe was to contemplate success but


envision failure…Why
one might ask. Well just because

I have learned that expecting the worst and hopping


for the best was the way to think.




If I expect the best and it doesn’t happen then I


am not disappointed, because I expect the worst.


Yeah well it use to make sense it doesn’t anymore.




I have stopped 3 feet  from the gold I have more


then once I think. No more, it doesn’t matter what’s


going on I will keep keeping on no matter what.




Instead of letting depression set in when failure


occur I will analyze and strengthen my position


and p[re[are for success. I have been expected


great results for the last 4 month I am expecting


riches to come to me in abundance just because it


is the only way I can see it now.




I have much to learn though. All my life I work


real hard, constantly, now I learn that I can be


come rich with little to no hard work.




I really need to understand this principle and I


am open to suggestions. I never really understood


the word "impossible". When ever I was told some


thing was impossible I had to try it and see by


myself.




I have done many things just because it was im-


possible. And has life went on I realized that


these impossible things were only impossible


because I stopped 3 feet short of the gold.




Mostly listening to the best of friend that tells


me " you can't do this" . What a waste of time.


There is many things here I don't yet understand


but I believe I can succeed so I will stay in as


long has it take to understand.




I am learning to control my thoughts I am learning


that I am the master of my fate and the captain of


my soul.




By interacting with the participants in this group


I will learn the proper way and will finish what I


started. I will succeed and I will live to enjoy it.




And so are all of you here.




Thank you
Michael and Linda for creating a journey.

My hope is to get together with you in person.




Love to all


Bernard Tritz


~~~~~~~~~~~~~

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Your
mind is being programmed everyday. Either you’re doing it yourself, or
somebody else is. If you’re not in charge, then you’ll really struggle
for success in network marketing.

Are you letting the radio, the TV, the internet, the newspaper, or
friends & family program you? If you are, then you are definitely
being programmed for lack & limitation.

If you’re in your car with the radio on, that radio has a tuner. You
can tune in hundreds of radio stations. Those radio waves bombard you
with negativity all day long. You are being programmed.

Do you turn the TV on and just leave it on while you’re home? Again,
you’re getting constant programming. This stuff, at best, is trivial.
At the worst, it’s very, very negative.

And when you’re programmed with negative garbage by radio & TV
several hours a day, 7 days a week, 4 weeks a month, 12 months a year,
year after year after year … it takes a toll. You develop a negative
outlook on life and your MLM business … often without even knowing it.

Learn To Program Yourself

What happens with your mind, subconsciously, when negative friends
& family members are talking to you? You are being programmed.

For you to have the success you want and deserve in life, it’s
critical that you learn to block out this garbage. That’s why when we
coach people, we have them plug into a 30-day mental cleanse, so you
can turn off the chatter.

We started this mental cleanse not too long ago. And yet, I have had
many, many dozens of emails from participants, telling me that it has
totally changed their lives. You can get more details on the 30 Day
Mental Cleanse at

30 Day Mental Cleanse.

Success Requires That You Get Rid of the Negativity Forever

It’s critical that you be honest with yourself. Do you want MLM
business success so much that you’re willing to pay the price of giving
up TV, giving up radio, giving up negativity for 30 days?

If you participate in this process for just 30 days, it will change
your life. You will learn to stop the both the constant external
chatter and the constant internal mental chatter … and to start
reprogramming yourself with positive self-talk.

How Do You Stop The Negative Chatter In Your Brain?

First, you learn to train yourself to turn off that external
negativity. That bit of negative programming you run into everywhere
can bring you down for days and make you doubt yourself. You’ve got to
stop that from happening.

Next, you learn to re-program your brain with positive self-talk. For instance, here is what I use:

“I am having fun, building the largest, most profitable,
highest-retention organization ever built in the history of network
marketing, easily and consistently through education and teamwork.”

That’s my self-talk. When I’m out in the field mowing, bush-hogging
with the tractor, that’s what I’m saying to myself. Anytime I’m driving
somewhere, that is my self-talk.

When I first started using this particular self-talk, I probably
said it 100-200 times a day. Now, the whole 27-word phrase is just a
subconscious thing, repeating in my mind, over and over and over. It
blocks out all the other chatter.

And the reason that’s so powerful is, when you stop the chatter, you
can truly, truly listen to people. And THAT is the skill that is so
critical to your success in both business & personal relationships.

I will believe in you until you have the strength to believe in yourself.

Henrietta
The Mentoring Mom
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